Good day.

My name is Jason.

I find writing a personal post to be difficult. If you have any advice on how to format a personal post, please inform me.

I recently just got over a divorce. It was a super stressful and a horrible time in my life. And I am happy I went through it. I am not going to talk crap about my Ex, she is the mother of my children after all. Yeppers, I have children. I get them every other weekend.

It start during the divorce process that I realized how miserable I was. And when I looked back on all the terrible things that happened to me, I was the comman denominator. I had to change that. Insert "journey of reknewed self-discovery".

I started to live. And it was amazing. Walking in parks, going on hikes, exploring new towns, making new friends that weren't life sucking leeches, picking up new hobbies, and actually taking time to get to know myself, was all ground breaking. I even started doing marital arts. And those guys and gals, they are the nicest, most nurturing, caring, real folks you will ever met.

Why am I telling you this? Because I want someone to join me in living life. Not just life, living life. So many folks just live, or pretend to live. I bet you know more folks above the ground that are dead inside, then compared to folks who are actual gone. Too deep? Ben Franklin once said, and I paraphrase, "some people die at 25, and we bury them at 75". Thats powerful. Thats insightful.

Have you heard of the Chinese Farmer parable? You need to Youtube it. It was absolutely life directional changing for me and Shia LeBeouf. (Thats right, the Even Stevens guy.) Thats where my true journey began. And I want a special someone to join me.

I am looking for my one, my partner, my best friend, my lover, my champion, my companion, my one. There's a catch. "But wait, there's more!" Thanks for the assistance, Billy.

She has to be open to living life with me.

Majority of the time spent will be vanilla. However, for scenes, our kinky sides and come out to play. Even though the idea of a 24/7 lifestyle sounds amazing, application of that seems mentally heavy. I have posted my BDSM test results on my profile page. Special thanks to everyone that has already looked at that post. I had a blast doing the test with one my close firends. We were laughing way too hard, sides were hurting for a while.

I am a Switch that Leans Sub. It comes out naturally. However, I would like to try out my Dom side. So don't feel you are disqualified already. I like scene play as stated earlier. And I know once the communication and structure of the scene is discussed, it will be quite a delightful time together.

If you know you meet one of these statements below, please do not hesitate to start a conversation with me. Say, "Hi"!

If you are: Someone that is amazing. Someone that is awesome to have around. Someone that is real. Someone that understands. Someome that is not perfect.

See, its not the kinks that matter. Its the characteristics and state of being outside the bedroom that do. I want to know that person of you. The kink is just the sprinkles on the delicious cupcake of living life.

It was a pleasure meeting you. (No, I never worked at Chick-fil-A.)

Thank you for reading all this. Have a good rest of your day, Jason