A problem many submissives find is that so few men are truly dominant and sadistic. They will be squeamish at making decisions for you and certainly at causing you pain. The right partner for me takes real fulfillment in surrendering her choices and body to me. She takes pleasure in pleasing me, knowing I am in control and will take care of her.

A healthy and loving relationship is my priority and I must have a Dom/sub dynamic for true connection.  Consent is king and nothing, nothing happens without it. Communication and trust are essential. Safe words and aftercare are required. Control and rough use of her body is my biggest turn-on. I am very oral, giving and receiving, and enjoy impact play, bondage, breast-binding, degradation, anal, pissplay, and some other kinks with the right partner. 

I am a youthful 58 yo white man, dedicated to fitness and self-growth, a retired paramedic and real estate owner in Asheville NC, looking for my forever girl. I am open to travel, and relocating either of us eventually. We will take our time learning each other, building the trust and communication so essential to our dynamic. As a Daddy Dominant experienced in TPE, I willingly take on the responsibility of the choices you surrender to me: what you will wear and eat, even whether you may sit on furniture and when you may use the bathroom. In return, your body will be mine to use any time and in any way. I am a loving sadist, delighting in pressing your boundaries while focusing on your emotional and physical safety.

I know myself and what I want and seek the same in my partner. I'm educated and work out, clean and disease free. My cock-size is perfectly average for those who need to know. I’m told I am outgoing, funny, and charming. Come see for yourself. I enjoy outdoor activities such as camping, boating and hiking, music festivals and live music, movies and live theater, wine tastings, art shows. I’m not into sports, but surely we can find other fun things to do together.

You are the rarest and most valued of creatures, a willing submissive. You need a Dominant who will care for you, make all your decisions, and use you like you deserve. Now you have a choice. One of your last you need to make if you choose wisely. Best to you.

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