Hello, My name is Allan. I'm a 64 year old heteroflexible cis-male from the eastern USA. I'm seeking some good chemistry and fun with a dominant woman.
Non-kinky me: Now I realize I'm older than most guys here. I'm also short and have a "dad-bod." I'm not what I'd call "eye candy." However, I've had several women tell me I'm handsome, and a few have said I look 5-10 years younger. I do try to stay active and to live a healthy lifestyle. I'm, intellegent, open-minded, and have a good sense of humor. I like to laugh. Imma good friend, and enjoy helping others.
I'm semi-retired and work from home in the evenings, which allows me a lot of daytime flexibilty. I'm a big fan of all types of music, both recorded and live , and I'm always listening while Im involved in my other interests. They include cooking and grilling, DIY projects, yardwork. I can fix almost anything give the right tools. My biggest passion is off-roading, working on my Jeep, and camping. I'm am poly and ENM, and I do have a primary partner who's aware of my search, and supportive of me finding a domme.
Kinky me: I have over a dozen years of experience in BDSM and power exchange. I'm seeking an ongoing dynamic based on friendship and connection, with rules, tasks, and kinky play. I'm very dedicated, and obedient. I value open, honest communication, and seek some who thinks likewise. I also enjoy some fun banter and casual conversations, and would like them to be part of our daily interaction. I'm looking primarily for an online relationship, but I'm open to meeting in person if locations permit.
I am a service oriented and masochistic submissive. I enjoy serving and worshipping a strong confident woman. I have a wide variety of kinks that include, in no particular order, service, tasks, body worship, CBT(tie and tease, cock slapping, ball stretching) impact play (spanking, flogging, whips, paddles), orgasm control (tease and denial, JOI), ass play, pegging, bondage, and Exhibitionism (CFNM, body inspections, showing off, public play). I'm open to others. I'm always up for new adventures. I believe in enthusiastic consent.
There are a few things I will not do. I will not call you "mommy." I will not discuss or participate in anything financially related. Hard limits are scat, vomit, age play, feminization, and anything illegal.
I:m seeking something primarily online, but open to the possibility of moving to something IRL. I'm definitely looking to build something long term. I'm open to cis-gender or trans-femme women. I don't have a specific "type" or age in mind, but I'd like to have some sort of attraction to you (there are many different things that can attribute to attraction beyond the physical). I think the most important thing is that we connect as friends and play partners. I like a confident woman who's in touch with her sexuality and kinks. Someone who can have a casual comversation, flirt, and stimulate me with her words as well as her actions. I like a domme who's a mix of soft domme and sadist, and can creativly combine those two sides.
If any of this piques your interest.please reach out by either chat or DM. I'll be happy to share a SFW photo and verify quickly. When you respond, please tell me what expectations you have, and desires you seek in a sub. Thanks for reading.
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