Hello there.

A littke bit about me: I am a 41 year old male, Caucasian, and built like a bear. I am divorced for the last few years. i have no drama/baggage from that whole experience. It was very freeing really. It was a toxic relationship. Just trust me on it.

I am into nerdy topics and being outdoors. I like to read books and i am a movie buff.

I am totally a Switch. I do lean towards the Sub side of the spectrum. (Please see BDSM test results picture in Profile). I have no issue being the Submissive in the relationship nor the Dominant. Its all about feeling the natural energy between us.

If you have the Domme persona, and want me to serve you, its not a problem. How would you like to be served? Do you want a domesticated man in your life that does house work after you had a long exhausting day at work? Want a man to worship your body or be used as your personal plaything, to name a few. We can definitely discuss limits and boundaries.

If you have the Submissive persona instead, and want to serve me, I am a big bondage fan. I adore physical touch (vanilla, of course, nothing too fast, I have class) and time spent together. Do you want me to monitor your eatting habits, workout schedule, or want you do in general on your free time? Would you like to go a timeframe without worrying about making decisions and just go with the flow? We can discuss these and more.

Please include a little bit about yourself, mainly interests and projects you might be working on.

You can discuss protocol (intro-level) if you feel its necessary. Being safe, consensual, and aftercare are in my dictionary. I would still like to get a vibe from you first before all the kinky stuff shows up to play. I am not a mind reader. Good communication is a mandatory skill.

Thank you for your time in reading this. If you reach all the way down to this end of the post, please respond with the word, "orange" in your response somewhere to let me know you can following simple instructions.

Thanks for being amazing. Jay.