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I have been in the BDSM community for over 20 years. I teach and demo in my local BDSM community on a variety of topics that are important to my kink.

I describe myself as a sadistic primal dominant. My core kinks are:

• S&M (paddles, floggers, canes, spanking, whips, and pain related predicament scenarios etc.).
• Bondage/Restraints (Leather and rope)
• Knives/fear play/edge play
• Electricity (violet wand), Wax, Medical and Pet Play
• Primal Play/Rough body play
• Mental/physical degradation/humiliation
• Consensual Non-Consent (CNC)/TPE
• Emotional sadism and behavior modification
• D/s - M/s dynamics (Conditioning, Protocol and Connection)
• Gags/gagging/choking/asphyxiation play
• Abduction, rape and other extreme forms of play as well.

Please note: Just because I enjoy the kinks above does not mean you have too. Do not let my interests detour you if you are interested in talking further.

Outside of kink, I love music (play several instruments but mainly drums), love concerts (rock/hard rock fan), big foodie and love trying new foods/cultures, enjoy sports but am by no means obsessed. I enjoy wine and spending time with friends. Love movies and being outdoors. Big animal lover and fascinated with the ocean. I love playing video games and board games. I am fascinated by science, astronomy, paleontology, just how things work... the paranormal etc.

I am looking for someone who I can enjoy, grow with and explore/ouch one another. I want someone who is attentive, a strong communicator but is independent and is stable. I am primarily looking for a consistent play partner preferably more local to me/Southeast Michigan. I want to explore new kinks, push boundaries where appropriate and share experiences.

I live in Michigan but am open to partners in other states as long as there is a commitment to communication.

Message me if you feel we might have some common interests or if you want to explore with me.

Fetlife: Tapedover