Single, slightly wild, ambitious, and passionate woman seeking an experienced, loyal, honest, over 40 years old Dominant to steal her heart and control her mind, body, and soul.

Damn. It even looks improbable in written form. Okay, I can't believe I'm doing this, but here goes...first Reddit post ever.

I am independent, strong willed, and feisty. I spend my time mainly in the Midwest, Florida, and NOLA. I am between the age of 45-55 years old. [Come on, a lady never reveals her true age - and I can be a proper lady when it's demanded of me.] I love to travel the world, enjoy good food and fine wine (and the occasional whiskey), and can spend hours watching people go about their day, or leisurely on a boat. I am an avid reader, sports fanatic, sleep deprived, socially conscious liberal. I have a propensity to swear a lot.

I am seeking a man that understands and appreciates the psychological aspects of dominance and the importance of communication and honesty in building the foundation of TPE. This will be a 24/7 full time relationship dynamic, not something that is only in the bedroom or in the privacy of the home.

If you fully understand the nuances of psychological dominance, lead with that in your message to me. Control my mind and you will control my body, heart, and eventually, my soul. However, it takes time to build a strong relationship. It requires mutual respect, deep friendship, trust, honesty, compatibility, and constant communication. These things do not happen overnight, and it's hard as hell to find someone to even try.

I know this is a big ask, so please give it thought before you respond. What I am seeking isn't easily found, but I have found it before. It is worth the patience that it takes to build.

I am not interested in married men, couples, poly, or an online dynamic only. I am looking for an eventual long term, in person relationship. If that's not what you are seeking, please do not respond to this Ad.

If we are not geographically close, I have the means to travel and/or relocate, so don't let the USA tag deter you from responding. It's not important.

A few of my kinks: Anal sex/play, acts of service, bondage, collar/leash, rope play, CNC, impact play, breast play, DP, praise, tasks, marking, exhibitionism, primal play. More to explore and discuss together.

Hard limits: scat, age play, TBD