You are a traditionalist! You crave to be submissive and to be led. This makes you feel safe.

You are either new and want to explore your submissive sensuality, or you may have had submissive experiences in the past and you looking for a new Dominant.

Either way you find yourself reading this ad, curious, intrigued and slightly excited.

You have an itch! You in luck, I am a Dom looking for a new submissive. I am in Hampshire, England so if you are in South of England make contact. If from anywhere else it will have to be online but don't let it put you off.

To be clear, you are looking for someone who is affectionate, fair but also very strict and not afraid to take on full control but also the responsibility that comes with it. Is your desire to submit to a Dom, who will use you for his pleasure, while mentally stimulating you train you to be the best version of yourself. You are not good at self discipline or you may be abit bratty. You need training. The initial training will be 4 weeks where you will learn about my protocols and what I expect. The Commitment will be mentally,,emotionally and sexually exhausting, but it only a short time before we get into a routine. We will also learn whether we are compatible or not to continue our dynamic.

Who am I: 54 year young, fit, diligent, loving, caring, hardworking with conservative views and dad bod. Disciplined in my own life do ideally positioned to add discipline to yours. Obedience and commitment are important values to me in what I expect from myself and others. I have a good attitude / character with defined goals for myself so I can help mentor and coach you to set and achieve your goals.

Important bit: I see the dynamic as under pinned by safety and consensual relationship and managed by a contract. As mentioned the basic training will map out routines, protocols and expectations. Part of the process will be to explore your hard and soft limits, kinks, explore your sensuality, to see you grow and to see if we are a good fit for the next step in relationship. The training will start with a ritual, contract signing and me snapping the training collar around your neck.

It is okay if you are unsure about the different dynamics within bdsm are. Come and discuss each and explore where you best fit. Lets chat about: 1. Master and slave 2. Dom and submissive 3. Caregiver and little 4. Dom/ bratty You may have tendencies that cover all but may have more leanings in one than the other.

We can discuss the structure you need in your life, rewards, punishments, bondage, pain, rituals, goal setting, role play, edging or general sexting, etc. Ask me about this, including help with morning, day and evening routines, food, hydration, exercise etc. Are you clingy, needy or bratty no problem I will no make you feel bad about this.

I would be interested in getting to know you first as part of understanding your needs. So definitely a slow burner. Available to chat during the day and night depending on our limits online.

This dynamic will suit a girl who is willing explore bdsm curiously but seriously as the dynamics are emotionally challenging and hard work. It will also suit someone who loves to banter and appreciates innuendos, adventure and becoming a co-pilot.

Make a connection today but only serious girls who are wanting to submit for real as it takes committment and energy. Thanks, come say hi and why this ad intrigues you if interested.