So, I know I am a masochist. That’s not in question. But I’ve been exploring for years and have always hoped to be a wonderful submissive to a dominant partner. Sadists to the front of the line. I love the deep connection and love a dominant and submissive can fall into. But in searching for this connection I’ve had before, men keep telling me I’m a horrible brat. That my attitude sucks. That I top from the bottom. Some of them get pretty heated about it.

This has now happened so many times that I believe it’s me. I’m the problem. I think?

I love giving up control and power. I love being degraded, humiliated, and have some extreme tastes in kink & and few fetishes. Nothing illegal, though. I’m all about RACK. I’m resilient as hell.

Long story short, I’d love to find someone who has experience who can help me understand myself. I’m totally willing to listen and allow you to take the lead once you’ve shown you’re capable and trustworthy.

Maybe this will develop into a long-term relationship, maybe it will only ever be a friendship. Time will tell.

FWIW I am married and polyamorous. I’m bisexual. I’d love a total power exchange, but that takes time to properly develop.

Attractiveness is so subjective, but I’ve been told many times that I am pretty and cute. Sometimes even gorgeous. ☺️ I have dark hair, light eyes, and am a normal weight for my height. Bonus points if you know anything about fitness because my goal this year is to go from average body to baddie.

Based in North America. Pacific time zone.

Please chat request me and let me know why you’d be a good fit to help me sort this out. I am, however not looking for feedback on the quality of this post or if anything about it upset you somehow. Please manage your own emotions and keep scrolling if you don’t like it. :)

xx