I'm looking for an experienced Dom for physical play, but also some of the more mental/cerebral aspects of D/s. I love to be given tasks, funishments, rewards, etc. I love certain types of objectification and degradation (is positive degradation a thing?)

Before you reply, please read all the way to the end. Then tell me something about you. And a joke. (Doesn't have to be a good joke, just show me you read this.)

About me: - I'm that woman who is in charge in so many facets of her life, but needs to be taken in hand/dominated in the most private facet. - BBW, obviously. (I wear a 3X). Be okay with that. - Medium height, wavy hair of variable color, pale skin, greenish eyes. Huge boobs. - I'm solo poly. This won't change. - Big ol' nerd/geek. Intelligent and intellectual. I like big books and I cannot lie. - Ethical, and conscientious that consent is for Doms as much as for subs. - Slutty, and not ashamed of it. - Political lefty. ACAB, BLM. (TERFs and trump supporters need not apply.)

What I bring to the table, in no particular order: - given the right Dom, and an established trust, I'm a very obedient sub. - no preference for level of protocol, and can adapt to suit your preference. - rarely bratty (can be never, if preferred). - I give really good sext. - a willingness to be guided. - willing to share about my irl slutty adventures. - if we meet in person, I'm GGG, and an excellent, enthusiastic cocksucker.

About you: - Gender irrelevant. I'm usually attracted to masculine energy these days, but that's not a hard and fast rule. - OVER 40 Sorry, but I just have a hard time submitting to someone younger. Basically, Gen X and up. - Experienced. This is not an entry-level position. - Ethical. Especially, not cheating on anyone. - Have time for daily-ish texts/messages, with longer exchanges sometimes, once we've established that we're doing this thing. - Poly. I can't be anyone's everything.

Some of my kinks. This list is not exhaustive, nor do I need all of these met by one person. - objectification. - semi-public stuff, like wearing a plug in public, or breast bondage under clothes. - breast and nipple bondage and light torture. - pussy stretching - praise - thuddy pain (heavy floggers are 👍, whips are 👎)

Hard pass: - DDlg, or anything that smacks of age play. - Doms who think they can expect obedience immediately, by virtue of their declaration of Domly Domness, without, ya know, getting to know each other. - people who don't read the whole post.