I love the sensations our bodies are capable of experiencing. I love the pleasures and the pains and joys and sadnesses of life, and how they're all required and how they blend and make up our existence. I love the anticipations and delights our minds create for us. I love how this paragraph works as well for romance and bedroom play as the rest of life itself.

I love the intimacy of kinky play, where the tenderness (or loving roughness) of a hand on a throat (or my balls) runs headlong into primal responses. We feel the fight or flight but give in and submit, trusting. I love the eroticism and the aesthetic of ropes, cuffs, and a heavy leather flogger. I love the feeling of surrender.

I'm also a normal person, with a normal life, who must live in this normal world, with its ups and downs and responsibilities. I want to share the experience of being me with you, and share the experience of being you with you as well. And I want to share my mind and heart and bed with someone who is turned on by the things that turn me on. I enjoy many many types of play and I'd love to discover and discuss our mutual turn ons when we're ready.

I'm introverted, a submissive-leaning switch, rational, also irrational, scientific, also spiritual, philosophical, liberal, compassionate, kind, and generous. I read fantasy science fiction, and nonfiction books on philosophy, magick, and UFOs. I'm divorced and have school aged children. I exercise regularly and eat healthily. I'm not a model but I'm thin/fit. I work in software and am pursuing a graduate degree, which means I stare at a screen entirely too much.

Physically I'm 5'10", 165 lbs /- depending, white, 6.5" cut cock, with natural pubic hair. I'm happy to share photos and voice messages and videos once we chat a little bit.

I'd love to meet someone from Charlottesville, Richmond, Washington DC, Harrisonburg, Staunton, northern NC, or surrounding areas: someone in driving distance from me. I'm looking for real life connection, leading to a real relationship. That said — if you're not local but want to chat because something struck your fancy, I won't say no to some friendly conversation, and who knows where things will take us.