Hello local Redditors,

I’m looking for a Daddy Dom or soft/gentle/pleasure Dom who is single, lives locally, monogamous, and interested in a D/s dynamic primarily in the bedroom and an equal, romantic dating or LTR relationship outside the bedroom. I need an in-person relationship as I do not do well with on-line or long distance relationships. (I AM NOT looking for hook ups or a sexting partner. No naughty pics will be sent so do not ask.)

Vanilla me: I’m 47F, 5’4”, 132 lbs, cis, hetero. I’m single, divorced. I have two school aged kids that I co-parent well and have 50/50 custody. I work in healthcare. I’m very independent and self-reliant. Own my own house. I am dog obsessed 🐾 and have two dogs. Not religious, am liberal. I enjoy exploring new activities, new foods and restaurants, and enjoy traveling. I have a positive outlook on life always looking for the silver linings, lessons learned, and teachable moments.

Kink me: I enjoy DDlg identifying more as a middle🥹, light bondage, light spanking, anal play, age play, praise kink, and more that we’ll talk about. I’m newer to BDSM and I’m still discovering new kinks about myself and enjoying the exploration. Now that I’ve tasted kink, I cannot go back to vanilla dating.

Hard limits: TPE, impact play, slapping the face, breath play, choking, gagging, humiliation/degradation, pain/S/M, scat, piss, blood, knife play, anything that leaves a permanent mark.

Looking for: Prefer ages 40-55. MINIMUM AGE 35. I highly value honesty, trust, loyalty, clear communication, passion🔥, and a deep emotional connection. I’m looking for a man who has his life together, liberal leaning, a positive outlook on life, values their health, enjoys going out to do activities, likes dogs, is able to take care of himself, and has already had all the children he would like to have since I’m too old to have more.

If you have the physical time and emotional energy for a romantic LTR, a high sex drive, and enjoy being kinky😈, we may be a match for each other.

Send me a chat and let’s explore our compatibility. 😊

** PLEASE, if you do not live in Maricopa County, are not completely single, are just wanting a hook up or sexting buddy, have no intention to meet IRL, or are unable to be fully truthful about yourself, PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME. I will not be sending any NSFW photos ever so do not ask. THANK YOU. 👍