About me: I’m 41, bbw, blonde, green eyes, professional, polyamorous, and currently single. I have 2 cats and live alone. I have been a part of the kink and Leather communities for almost 19 years. Though I am a switch I am currently seeking a relationship with a Dominant.

I’m seeking a Dominant with male energy and kink experience. I’ve spent quite some time alone and without an outlet for play and I would like to change that. I am a versatile bottom with lots of experience with all different types of play. I am not a masochist but that doesn’t mean pain is a no-no. I am well-versed in thorough negotiation and I’m certain we can cover all the bases before we jump into the playing.

With that said, I am not seeking a super casual arrangement. I would like to find someone with consistent time and energy for more than just play. I would like to connect as people as well as play partners. I want someone who will communicate with me more often than when they get a proverbial “hard-on”.

Also I am looking for this arrangement to include sexual contact. Penetrative sex is not a must but it is preferred. I am into BDSM play because it turns me on. However, I am interested in play outside of sex. It’s a big ole jumble in my head right now but the best way I can describe it is the desire for kinky play scenes that lead to really hot sex that perpetuates the connection we created during the scene.

Please be upfront and honest with me about current relationships, experience level, boundaries, and health. I can deal with most situations as long as you are honest upfront and not later, down the road, once you think it won’t matter anymore. You can expect the same from me.