About US - Male half is 43 and have loved BDSM for over 20 years now. I’m a DomSadist so if you dont enjoy at least a little pain or are open to try it your not for us. He is a Manager and does not like to repeat himself. She is 36 bi and very kinky and also has a very professional career. We believe that BDSM has nothing to do with sex and everything to do with sex all at the same time. We are always learning something new each and every day. We have an open marriage and we would love to find the right woman and start a poly house hold. When we find the right one we will only play between the three of us for the most part. You do not have to be bi, but bi would be preferred. Want to know something about us, just ask. We are open to a lot because we both like a few different things. We will happily trade rated pic but do not post on the site because of our careers.

Our Ideal Person - Honesty to yourself and us is the most important thing to start with. We are all still growing and learning things about our selfs and will continue that process until we die. The wife is 36 and would prefer a submissive younger than her but not to young. If you already had training before and you know who and what you are and what you want that it great. Also if your new and just starting out, we will work with you. We are open to a 24/7 slave, submissive, or a babygirl. We would like a live-in or someone close. A live-in would have to serve us both equally. We are open to you working in the home or outside the home. We just want you to be a productive member of our household however that looks. Laziness will not work out. We know the right one will be hard to find but it will be worth the wait. We are looking for a long-term to life time commitment and not into one night stands. The top of both of our fetish likes are spanking, bondage oral.

We are 100% real and do not have time for games. Also we have 2 boys under 16 years old. We have a big house and they will never see anything they should not! It should be easy for a true submissive to be non sexually submissive around them and in public. She would also enjoy things like taking baths together, washing each other hair, getting nails and hair done, along with going shopping.