Hi, I'm 30 and in NY State. I'm looking for something that begins online as we get to know each other for safety purposes and to make sure we are a good match, and then eventually meet down the road for a FWB relationship that could possibly lead to more. Please read the whole post if you want to message me :)

Simple stuff about me: I'm a teacher, I love art and theatre and Disney. I also love my cat. I'm a talkative person with a lot of passion for human rights. I'm into swimming so summer is my favorite season, but Christmas is my favorite holiday.

Important things to me are that we have strong communication skills and great emotional intelligence. I would like to take to get to know you and feel safe before meeting. I have a lot of things that are going to be important to communicate about. Consent is obviously key. Voice calls will be a MUST for getting to know each other. Pictures will be exchanged before meeting. Feel free to send yours whenever, but I will also send mine whenever, do not ask please. I will be upfront I am plus size (size 22) and proud, I'm 5'5, and brunette.

My main kink is the dom/sub mental relationship that comes with BDSM. I am a sub at heart (sexually) and a caretaker/more dominant outside of sex. I'd love to explore the most important kinks we both have. I can be bratty sometimes, nervous in sub space, have a praise kink, I love to be controlled and told what to do. I am not into pain, extreme degradation, age play, CNC, body fluids, swallowing.

If you're interested in seeing if we are a match, I'd love to hear from you. Send me a message with your age, location, what you liked about my post, limits, kinks you must have in a sexual relationship, and any questions you have for me. Tell me your favorite Disney movie or music genre! I will not reply if you don't have this information so I can weed out who didn't read my post.

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