31 yoa [F4M]NC Witty Daddy Wanted

About me: 31 yoa biracial (white / asian) female, workaholic (but genuinely enjoy my work), sweet and caring, but also don't put up with non-sense and tend to be very direct / honest (although rarely in a malicious way -but am consciously aware I am capable of same). I have ADD, so I have "Squirrel" moments and PTSD, so I have some hypervigilance and have learned to trust (or at least acknowledge) my instincts. For the most part, I'm pretty well put together, however I do tend to not give as much attention to myself and my needs (sometimes even my most basic).

What I am looking for: I want someone who can help to guide, discipline, and care for me. I enjoy someone who has an air of confidence and strength in them. One of the things about me is if I feel that I can pin point your insecurities and easily mentally overpower you, it's not going to work. I would like someone who can be my mental equal (or perhaps even a little better). I am a bit of what the kids today would call a sapiosexual. Someone who can stimulate my mind has my attention and mixed someone with the confidence to just take me, can have my body.

Side notes: I'm a bit of a bratty sub, I enjoy some good malicious compliance, make mes, and a good chase - literal and figurative. I enjoy making my partner get to the point where their primal side takes over and they either get me in line or just take me. I am not an automatic submissive nor one that will always give in to you right away, but I am a fun challenge and the care I give my Dom is truly worth

I live in NC. I do have an odd schedule, so that can be a challenge sometimes. If you're interested or have any questions, send me a message!

Bodytype - I'm 5'4" and what would be considered a BBW (or SSBBW (although I'm not exactly sure of the difference and size guide lines that go with that) although I do have curves to my body (hips, fairly large not flat booty, and proportional breasts (large on their own, but not topple me over big). Don't want there to be any surprises. Everyone has their preference :) I for example prefer those who are taller (especially over 6'0") and more mature (emotionally / personality wise at least).