I have posted previously, but am still looking for someone that's a good fit. I'd prefer to take more time to look for real multi level compatability than try to force something that's a partial match

It's ironic to bullet point a list looking for a Dominant, please tell me you find it as humorous as I do. It’s counter to my nature, but worth a try at least once.

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ABOUT ME- 38, Single, white, female, 5' 7.

-Introspective and self aware to a fault

-Insanely curious

-Quiet, but will share a lot of myself once I know someone

-Strong for dislike temperatures above 75 degrees

-Value family, friends and connection

-Soft spoken, but blunt at times with a hint of dry humor

-Detail oriented

-Taking time to look after my health, living at a slower pace

-Loquacious

-Comforted by the sounds of birds in the morning, except crows if I am honest

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ABOUT YOU- Around 38 years old, not married or in a relationship, monogamous values, have a job and stable home life, tall.

-Gentle but firm

-Respectfully assertive

-Protective

-Goal/Growth oriented

-Emotionally intelligent

-More outgoing and extroverted, but highly value quiet times

-Good sense of humor

-Capable of admitting mistakes

-Take care in how you present yourself

-Value depth

-Good communicator

-Enjoy relating about movies, documentaries, travel, books, psychology, anything visual design or art related. Also value basic day to day conversation about nothing in particular

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YOU AS A DOMINANT-

-Flexible in your approach depending on the relationship

-Gentle/Firm, can be rough without humiliation as a need

-Ok taking the lead

-Care about a potential Submissive is as a person, You could not invest your time without knowing who they are on a level deeper than they know themselves

-Real life experience as a Dom. Naturally inclined? Then self educated in ethical domination through experience and feedback, reading books, having a mentor, or talking to other people in the community in some combination

-Can balance your day to day life with D/s and separate the two

-Clear about your expectations and asking for what you want or need

-Able to discuss kinks/limits/limit pushing transparently

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ME AS A SUBMISSIVE-

-I have schedule flexibility, responses will be timely

-I don’t have an endless cache of photos

-Don’t like to play the field of options, I am monogamous

-I need room to ground myself, dynamic pacing matters

-I am private and value discretion

-I must balance my own life goals separate from D/s

-Still learning what I like, but have a very good idea at this point

-Intensely caring, like to please, and hear praise

-Able to be consistent in emotional effort and communication

-Will not use honorifics unless I am in a committed D/s relationship

-Don’t give my submission lightly to random people

-I DO HAVE LIMITS. EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL

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Dm me with a reply stating how you identify as a Dom, and I’ll reply. SFW photo exchange to aid in verification once we have established mutual interest. I won’t respond to chat requests.