I'm a 37 year old trans woman looking for a connection. I enjoy the sexual aspects of being a sub, but what really gets me excited is being allowed to serve someone. My main love language is service, with affirmations being second. I'm also looking for this to become a dating relationship, I need a deep connection like that for this to work. PC gamers, nerds in general, and wrestling marks are highly encouraged to message me, I would love to hear from you. Please be around my age, sorry 18, 19 year olds, you're just too young for me.

I'm looking for a Dom(me) on the softer side of things. Someone more into encouragement than humiliation that'll lift me up to be my very best. That being said, the level of softness is certainly negotiable. I'm also looking for someone to attend local kink parties with. The Seattle kink community is large, and I plan to be a part of it.

In terms of kinks I'm basically willing to try most things once. I do set hard limits on scat, blood, basically anything illegal, needles, scars, and electricity. Bondage, tasks, protocol, praise, collaring, anal training, orgasm denial/control, edging, impact play, etc. are all game. I would also love to explore hypnosis in all of its forms. If a strong bond formed I would also love to transition to a TPE relationship, but only after trust was gained on both sides.

I'm 5'8 and somewhat overweight. I've made strides to lose weight this year, so far I've dropped over 50 pounds with no end in sight. I have eightish tattoos. I love ink, and intend to cover my body with tattoos. My style is pretty femme as I usually only leave the house in a dress.

If you read this far, thanks for spending a few minutes to check out this post. If you see anything you like please reach out. I look forward to hearing from you, but I do reserve the right to ignore lazy intro messages.