ABOUT ME- 38, Single, white, female, 5’7

-Introspective and self aware to a fault

-Strongly dislike temperatures above 75 degrees

-Insanely curious

-Quiet, but will share a lot of myself once I know someone

-Value family, friends and connection

-Listening to Dermot Kennedy, Billie Eilish, and Yann Tiersen on repeat

-Soft spoken, sometimes blunt, with an unexpected dry humorous side

-Detail oriented. I have had friends request my help with organization skills

-Taking time to look after my health, living at a slower pace

-Loquacious

-Comforted by the sounds of birds in the morning, aside from crows, if I am honest

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ABOUT YOU- Around 38 years old, not married or in a relationship, have a job and stable home life, monogamous, tall

-Gentle but firm guiding personality

-Respectfully assertive

-Goal/Growth oriented in life

-Emotionally intelligent

-Somewhat outgoing and extroverted but highly value quiet times to

-Good sense of humor

-Capable of admitting mistakes

-Love of pets

-Take good care in how you present yourself

-Value depth

-Good communicator

-Enjoy relating about movies, documentaries, travel, books, psychology, and basic day to day struggles or occurrences

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YOU AS A DOMINANT-

-Flexible in your approach depending on the relationship/dynamic

-Gentle/Firm approach, can be more rough without humiliation as a need

-Ok taking the lead of bdsm related discussions

-Care about a potential Submissive is as a person, it’s a in inherent part of the dynamic for you. You could not invest your time without it

-Real life experience as a Dom. Naturally inclined? Then self educated in ethical domination by experience and feedback, reading books, having a mentor and talking to other people in the community in some combination

-Can balance your day to day life with D/s and separate the two

-Clear about your expectations, and asking for what you want or need

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ME AS A SUBMISSIVE-

-I have schedule flexibility, responses will be timely

-I don’t have an endless cache of photos. I am private and value discretion

-Don’t like to play the field of options, I am monogamous in values and will focus only on you

-I need room to ground myself, dynamic pacing matters

-I value my own life goals separate from D/s, and therefore yours

-Still learning what I like, am new to a lot, but have a very good outline at this point

-Intensely caring, like to please, and hear praise

-Able to be consistent in communication and emotional effort

-Don’t give my submission lightly to random people

-I DO HAVE LIMITS

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GENERAL D/s-

-Vanilla level human connection ongoing to consider anything D/s

-Mental/physical safety paramount for both people

-Personal moral values in life extend to D/s

-Boundaries/kinks/limits/needs/wants to be discussed transparently from the start. Trust can be built from that

-Equal emotional and communication investment

-Taking one dynamic related thing at a time

-Adjusting for daily life against D/s must be ongoing

-D/s based in personal growth within D/s relationship and in vanilla life goals

-Mutual physical/emotional attraction

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Dm me with a reply stating how you identify as a Dom, and I’ll reply. SFW photo exchange to verify once we have established if there is compatibility. I won’t respond to chat requests.

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*edited twice for spacing and formatting*