Hello, there. First, this is my NSFW browsing account from before Reddit had some of the newer features, and I've not really done much past voting with it. I'm internally flailing trying to think of what to say and how to structure things, but here goes..

Edit: I tried posting to another ISO subreddit that required a particular template. My post has been removed there, and I'm not quite sure why. The good thing is that the template helped me think a bit more, and I feel it's over-all a better post. So, I figured I'd edit my other posts to include that content.

Edit 2: Trying to decide what I was going to do for the night, last night, and I realized that I left out my creative hobbies. I've added those to the about me section.

"New" Content:

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SFW Section:

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Age: I'm 37, and 30-42 would be the range I'm ideally looking to meet. That range isn't near set in stone. It's more of a guideline.

Appearance: I'm a little over six foot with a bit of a dad bod that I put on during the pandemic, but I'm hoping to work off Soon(tm). I have longer (unfortunately thinning) hair that I love and wish I'd grown out earlier in my life. I keep a beard, but I'm not a fan of it. It's more a "where did my jawline go" type thing that I hide behind.

Location: Virginia. I'm open to talk, online, but I'm not planning to relocate any time soon. For a relationship, I'd want something in-person.

Pictures: I don't have any to share, at the moment, but I'm good with sharing pictures after some dialogue.

Looking For: This section says to pick one, but I'm not really sure where to go with this. I'm not even expecting a "match." I'm just putting myself out here. I'd love to have a dominant friend, but my goal is that I want to build towards something long term. I'm team poly, but it depends on the timing. My thoughts are that in the early stage, no one's committed, so things are generally open. If things are going well, I feel exclusivity for a short-ish time to really build a relation is ideal. After that, not everyone can always satisfy everyone's desires for life, in my opinion. So, yeah, for me, it's more about what stage of a relationship I'm in, and communication is the most important factor.

Traits I'm Looking For: Physically: I'm looking for someone close to my height, preferably. I know the odds of that are incredibly low, but the deal is that I've dated women that were around 5'5. I'm not opposed to a height difference, but there's still a lot I'd like to experience with someone my size -- wrestling/teasing without holding back so much, being the little spoon and not having the backpack cuddles (although they are still nice, don't get me wrong), wearing your pajamas/hoodies, and stuff like that. So, I am hoping for someone 5'9 , and if I'm the one looking up? Even better. Someone 5'5 but also works out also be ideal. I'd love the things I mentioned above this, but being able to wrestle without holding back would also be be something I'm looking for. And it'd help with getting me to the gym with a partner. Hair/eye color and ethnicity aren't important for me. Common interests and conversation are the most important. Speaking of, non-physical traits: intelligence, authoritative, and someone to play games and go to concerts/movies with are essentially what I'd like.

Dealbreakers/Requirements: As far as friendish, anyone outside the US would be rough to talk with given the time-zone difference. I'm honestly not entirely sure what else to put in as dealbreakers for SFW. I'm 420 friendly, a social drinker, so those're not a problem.

About Me: I've always been a bit of a computer nerd. I love going to movies on opening nights/weekends to see the film with people who love the content as much as I do, and I enjoy just about every genre. I used to rollerblade, and I'd love to take that back up, again. I'd have to work up to it, though. When I'm not working, I'm usually playing games or watching Netflix. I still play my guitar from time to time, and I enjoy playing the piano. I also really love to sing. Unfortunately, living in an apartment kinda puts a damper on my musical interest. Digital art is something I rarely do, but I always tell myself I'm going to really get back into it. I recently took up writing, and I'm working on a site to help with that. It's been fun writing the app I'm using to write. I'm not planning on ever releasing either the app or my stories, but it's fun. I am on the Autism Spectrum. I'm on the higher end of functioning; most people wouldn't guess that I am on it at all, but I am diagnosed. I'm just adept at blending in.

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NSFW Section:

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Experience: I didn't get introduced to BDSM until about the time I turned thirty. I've only had a couple longer term relationships, and the one at that time introduced me to it. I pretty quickly realized I was submissive, and as time has gone on, I've only seen more and more in my life/past that confirms it. I've really only had the one long term relationship and a couple short term dating sessions. Every relationship has been along the lines of what I have in this post, but only one has actually been with active power exchange/etc. The others were dates with discussions about interests and light play/teasing.

Kinks: I'm mostly into domination regarding the mind (but that's partially due to being tall). It's really about being overpowered (mentally and physically) that is big for me. I'm no Einstein, but I'm fairly quick, and someone who can keep me on my toes would be incredible. I tend to go into subspace pretty easily, and I love being pushed under. I love being "managed." 24/7 and FLR are something I hope to be part of, someday. I also love degradation and mind control.

Regarding being a brat, I love teasing, but it's not that I'm just trying to be an ass to be one. Brat seems to have a bad rep, but for me, it's not like I'm going out of my way to ruin anything. I really like being put in "my place," but not at the expense of a significant other's enjoyment. Being on the spectrum does mean I might miss cues to stop or slow down, though, so I do sometimes need to be told outright. After being told, I can hold off. CNC is a long term goal that I'm hoping for, someday.

Limits: I've never done or been interested in anything regarding a woman with a strap-on, but I'm not opposed to talking about potentials; it's just far closer to a hard limit than a soft limit. Anything to do with testicles is a hard limit for me, so no CBT or such. Orgasm denial is ok to an extent, but wearing a chastity device is a hard limit. Sissification is also a limit, for me. I'd love to be able to wear a significant other's PJs or hoodie, but that's just in the role-reversal type thing where woman usually wear the man's clothes. Scat is a hard limit.

NSFW Dealbreakers/Requirements: Dermal piercings or nipple piercings, it's an internal hang up on my end. I also prefer skin over tattoos, hope that makes sense. I just basically mean I'm not interested in someone absolutely covered in tattoos. Having sleeves with various other tattoos are cool, but not facial/neck or large body tattoos. I'm kinda struggling, here, because it's more a person-to-person thing. I don't think those are really that NSFW, but I'm not sure what else I'd consider to be an NSFW deal breaker.

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Rest of Original Post (largely covered in the edit):

Removed due to it just making this way too damn long.

Thanks for reading. <3