Hello! I am a 37-year-old trans woman living her best life in Seattle. I am originally from the deep South, but please do not hold that against me! I am 5’8, and 220 pounds. My hair is currently a pretty shade of blue, and my arms are covered in tattoos. I have six finished, and two in progress. Eventually I hope to be totally covered in ink! My style is femme, I usually prefer dresses to pants.

I am a giant nerd. The kind that builds her own gaming PC. I am also super into sci fi in all of its forms, as well as fantasy and some horror (I cannot watch alone though!) I love professional wrestling, and hope to start going to local shows now that Covid is (hopefully??) going away. I also fancy myself a writer. I’m currently working on a sci fi series that takes all of my favorite things about sci fi and crams them into one universe. All of my writing is garbage, but it is so much fun watching the characters in my head come to life on paper. They always turn out differently than I expect. I hope one day to publish in some form. My ultimate goal is to use this to fund my way into law school. A girl can dream, right?

I am not inexperienced in the world of kink, but I still have a lot I want to learn and experience. I am at a point where I know what I am looking for in a Dom(me), the first thing being communication. Going multiple days without hearing from you (silence in advance is always ok) will not work for me because of past trauma, so if you do not think you can handle that, please just move on. I am looking for someone who has their shit together. This is more for that you have goals and ambitions in life, and you are actively working towards them. I would prefer a Dom(me) that was less strict, more caring, but this is not a hard limit. I also want a partner outside the dynamic. Someone to share all of my life with and explore this wonderful city. Most importantly, I’m looking for someone that wants to work towards TPE. A 24/7 dynamic should be the end goal, and something that is built up over time. I’m looking for someone I can trust enough to give myself to fully. Is that you?

As for kinks I would say my major two are service and praise. These run so deep into my being that I often find them affecting my vanilla life. Service just feels right, especially those I care about. I also love impact, rope, bondage (in general), orgasm control, collaring, kneeling, and more. I really want to explore a wide range of kinks, so there is a good chance I would be willing to try what you are into. Some hard limits: anything that scars, blood, needles, electricity, scat, and anything against the law. With the right person, and much trust and a connection has been established, I would love to explore freeuse. It just sounds like the ultimate act of service to me.

If any of this rambling reaches out to you please ‌reach out! I would ask that if you are under the age of 27 to please look elsewhere, though. If all you can say for a first message is hello, please do not waste my time. I have had some success meeting interesting, kink minded folks through Reddit, and I look forward to meeting you!