I'm a male sub looking for dominant playmates for occasional soft D/s games. By "occasional", I mean once or twice a month, not more often than that. However, I would really like if this was something regular/periodic.

I live in Belgium (French speaking), 53 years old and still in a decent shape (1m73, 68kg; 5.67 ft, 149 lb). I'm married and I have a very traditional family life style.

I would prefer someone older than 30 years old. Someone around my age would be perfect. It would also be much more convenient if you are in Europe, but I would not reject anyone purely on a geographical criteria.

I have absolutely NO interest in findom. If that is what you do, do not waste your time contacting me.

I am into classical D/s games, but I particularly like teasing and denial, orgasm control, nipple play (VERY important to include this), clothespins, light CBT,... I like to be guided, instructed and having to answer embarrassing questions. I am very interested in sissy things, although I do not have any toys or outfit. I am NOT into impact play.

I like to be instructed to look at certain porn videos and having to comment on them, or having to explain how I position myself towards what I see. You should see this as a way to exert your control on me -- The control aspect is very important for me, and it works greatly when using teasing and denial games. If you take pleasure in controlling someone's sexual life, then I am yours. You should also like to use babecock and edging tools, such as fapinstructor. I fantasy on bi-forced scenes, feminization, etc. but this is just it: a fantasy in my head.

I can come on cam, but will not show my face. I also like to keep it "text based", so I'm ok if you do not want to use the webcam.

For male dominants, if you only want to show your cock, then I am not a good cadidate. I need attention. If you give me enough, then I will give you some.