I am a 40m fit and gentle Dom looks for subs. As a Dom, I am the classic gentle or daddy Dom. I love to take control - but it is important that you feel safe and comfortable. Empathy and kindness are also important to me. It is also important that my subs feel cared for, which I do with praise and good food (very much related with my love languages!).
There’s a contrast between my public persona (classic relaxed neighborhood dad that takes care of himself) with my private persona (sexual and intense). I relish that contrast and it is part of my kink. I am fit and I enjoy manhandling and holding down my subs. I have also been lucky with my genes too and I am well endowed (see the other pic I uploaded some days ago) and leak/cum a lot - and this is a lot of fun as a Dom. I love the feeling of stretching my sub. I love to make a mess and give way to my breeding instincts.
Some other key kinks are oral (with plenty of eye contact), and edging and orgasm control. I like to take over and slowly nudge her into the sub mindspace where she just gives in. I also like to keep it light and avoiding dark undertones (for example, when exploring CNC). I am insanely attracted to women that are smart, independent, and successful - and get them absolutely cock-drunk.
Limits: Not into heavy pain, sadism, scat, and so on.
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