Hello my friends, large wall of text incoming, but I'm hoping to only have to do this whole thing once. Just want to be upfront so everyone can be on the same page.
Like many here, I'm looking for a power exchange partner. A bit about me outside of the realm of kink, ya know, round me out as a person. Physically, I'm 6'4", roughly 235 lbs. I have long, dark brown hair, and blue eyes. I have a gym in my basement, and while I'm fit, I'm not what anyone would call 'muscular' or a 'gym bro'. I love gardening, games of all sorts, fitness, reading, wood working, chainmaille, and probably more than I'm able to think about. I'm an ethically non-monogamist, though my partners and I date seperately. As well, I'm a very dedicated leftist. You don't have to be, but it's something you be aware of about me.
I'm going to be upfront with my desires, as I know what it is I'm looking for. I'm what I like to call a loving dominant, or daddy, depending on what vibe you'd like to put onto the role. I crave nurturing my partners. I love providing structure and security. I enjoy having times filled with laughter and silliness as much as what will be many serious conversations. I'm hoping to find a woman who would be open to a TPE dynamic, one that we would grow into with safe, sane and consensual trust. My long term goal would be for us to move in together, likely blending the ideals of a traditional gender roles dynamic with kink and less ick, and more. While not a deal breaker, I'm into witchcraft and the occult, and I hope that you will be too. There is room for negotiation, depending on what we both enough, we can go from there
My Kinks are as follows (All with negotiation) :
Bondage, Edging, Orgasm Control / Denial, Forced Orgasms, Breeding, Spanking, Toys and Tools (of various kinds), Light / Casual Misogyny, Public Play, and others that I'm probably not thinking of at the moment.
Most importantly, consent and communication are the hottest things to me.
Limits (Non-Negotiable) :
Extreme Violence that leaves lasting damage, Anything that normally goes into the toilet, or similar.
Expectations for our first couple days of chatting :
I will NOT ask for nudes, or really anything more than a photo after a few days to know you're a real person.
I will NOT be jumping into a dynamic off the bat. Sure, we might discuss kink, it might get hot and whatnot, but until we agree to something, I do not own you. Just messaging me is not consent for that.
I WILL want a voice call within a few days of chatting to know, and a video call afterwards.
There's more to be said, but the words don't want to come. I hope I've gotten across what I'm looking for, and I hope to hear from people who are interested.
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