You want this.
To let go. To feel small, safe, and completely overwhelmed. To be pushed, broken down, and built back up into something better;Â mine*.*
Iâm a seasoned Dominant in my 30s, based in Toronto, living a fast-paced life in the global tech world. My career is demanding, intense, and unpredictable, and I bring that same energy into my dominance. Control is my release.
I donât just issue commands; I create experiences. I thrive on anticipation, teasing you to the brink and keeping you there, unraveling you layer by layer. Submission isnât just an act; itâs a mindset, a space where you let go completely, knowing Iâll guide you back.
I need a submissive who isnât just âopen toâ submission but hungers for it. Someone who feels that pull to obey, to surrender, to be molded into something perfectly ours.
What Youâll Experience With Me
- Pleasure & Pain Intertwined â I donât do gentle. I take you, push you, pull you apart, then soothe you back into my arms. Itâs primal, rough, and absolutely addicting. Youâll find yourself craving more even when youâre exhausted.
- Hypnotic Submission â Through my voice, my hands, and the words I weave into your mind, Iâll bring you deeper. The right phrase, the right look, and youâll feel it; a drop so deep youâll forget where you end and I begin.
- Praise & Degradation, Perfectly Balanced â I know when to call you my good girl and when to remind you exactly where you belong. Iâll read you, adjust, and give you the exact mix of words to leave you aching for more.
- Brat-Tamer, Not a Doormat â A little playful resistance makes things interesting. But know your place. If you push too far, youâll be put back in line; whether with words, a look, or something youâll still be feeling the next day.
- Aftercare That Brings You Back â The harder I take you, the softer Iâll catch you. Submission isnât just about breaking; itâs about knowing someone is there to hold the pieces. If you crave that deep connection, Iâm exactly what you need.
What I Want in a Submissive
- You crave structure, control, and being pushed further. You want to be molded, guided, and trained into something that serves us both.
- You understand the power of submission. Itâs not just about sex (though thatâs a part of it). Itâs about trust, control, and the rush of being owned.
- Youâre intelligent, emotionally aware, and communicative. You can express your needs, respect my time, and put in effort, because I will, too.
- You enjoy playfulness, but you know when to yield. Brattiness is fun until itâs not. If you push, be prepared for the consequences.
- You want to be wantedâpossessively, obsessively. You like the idea of my attention fully on you, knowing youâre mine to control, mold, and indulge.
- Youâre ready for a connection thatâs addictive, raw, and completely consuming.
A Little About Me
- Toronto-based but flexible. I travel for work and can accommodate online or in-person dynamics.
- Intense, driven, and demanding. I expect a lot, but I give a lot, too.
- A Dominant with depth. Iâm not just here to play. I want something meaningful, something that lingers when weâre apart.
- Introverted but socially adept. I can charm a room, hold deep conversations, and get lost in the right person. I thrive on meaningful interactions.
Iâm not perfect. Iâve had my struggles. If you enjoy supporting a man whoâs intense, ambitious, and at times, chaotic, youâll find fulfillment here. Iâll take you apart and put you back togetherâbut youâll steady me in return.
Kinks & Dynamics I Enjoy
- Orgasm Control & Edging â Iâll decide when, how, and if you get to come.
- Impact Play & Rough Use â Whether itâs a sharp smack, a lingering bruise, or a bruised ego, youâll feel it.
- Degradation & Praise â Youâll crave my words, whether theyâre lifting you up or tearing you down.
- Hypnotic Submission & Mind Games â Iâll get inside your head. Youâll thank me for it.
- Teasing & Denial â If I say beg, you better mean it.
- Possession & Deep Control â Youâll feel owned. Youâll love it.
Monogamy is ideal, but I enjoy providing intense, tailored scenes for the right submissive. If you want a long-term dynamic, thatâs on the table. If you want an experience youâll never forget, I can give you that, too.
What to Do Next
If this makes your stomach tighten, if youâre already wet just thinking about it, then youâre exactly what Iâm looking for.
Send me a message with:
- A bit about yourselfâwho you are, what submission means to you.
- Your experience with D/s and what excites you most about this dynamic.
- A question for me. Show me that youâre actually curious, not just a passive player.
Iâm selective. I invest in whatâs worth my time. If thatâs you, youâll know soon enough.
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