Hello there,

Thank you for visiting! I hope you're exactly who I'm looking for.

Preface

I never thought I'd come to Reddit for this, but dating apps are about as fun as getting poked in the eye and I thought, y'know, why not throw something out and see if it sticks?

So about me. I'm 31 and a professional person - a teacher of computer science, to be exact. I love to laugh and have been told I have an intensely dry wit. I'm also (dare I say so) an intelligent person who appreciates the company of the likewise witty, interesting and alternative. (After all, the best people are those who are just weird enough to be interesting!) I am also a huge nerd: ask me about the DnD world I've been lovingly crafting for the past five years, and we'll be there for hours. I also love various fandoms' such as LOTR, Star Wars and Warhammer. I am a creative person; I enjoy writing, and have written short stories (including some naughtier ones) as a side hobby of mine. In addition, I'm a gamer with a love for strategy and strategic thinking games - most notably Age of Empires and Total War. Still, I am a social creature as well! I love going out with friends and meeting people. As you can see from the below I've never met a metaphor I couldn't mix, but I'm also a caring, passionate and loving one with a need for deep connection.

My looks

I'm 6'6" in height, with broad shoulders and close cropped hair. I go through various stages regarding my facial hair depending on my mood. I could be clean shaven, have stubble or be feeling like a growing my beard out; it tends to fluctuate. I have dark brown eyes which I was once told are "enchanting" and yes, I'm still riding that high to this day. I am also working on getting myself into shape. Being a teacher isn't the most active of professions, but I have over the last twelve months grown to love taking walks, going swimming and - while I certainly count myself as a work in progress and am a larger guy - I feel like I'm bettering myself. How can someone guide you if they aren't able to change, grow and practice what they preach themselves, right?

And now for the kinky bit...

I am a dominant, and have been for the last thirteen years. I would describe myself as strict but fair. I enjoy some brattiness, though I won't suffer disrespect. It's that spark of brattiness that gives personality to a dynamic, and I want to be kept on my toes as a dominant, even though you'll still be punished for it. (Masochists are always fun for this!)

What I want ideally is to find someone for a total power exchange-style long term relationship. I want someone I can mould, mind and body. However, this is not something I will jump into headfirst. There is nothing more intimate than a BDSM dynamic. Nothing requires as much trust, communication, honesty or safeguarding, and that's important. I want a genuine connection, to get to know my potential submissive as a person and to develop a healthy and rewarding dynamic and relationship we can both grow into.

I am happy to start online but ideally I would want to move to IRL and would relocate for the ideal dynamic. I should mention at this point I am primarily interested in cis females though i would consider the *right* submissive of a different gender in terms of trans-mascs, trans-femmes, sissies or femboys. What I'm looking for most in you as a submissive is your attitudes towards a BDSM dynamic and the chemistry between us. Experience doesn't matter - in fact inexperience can be fun! Watching you take your first dip into the depths of BDSM, carefully guided by me is a very rewarding thing. Then again, if you are a seasoned pro, I am happy to join you on your continued journey in this lifestyle.

Below is are my favourite kinks - by no means an exhaustive list:

Bondage (the tighter the better - you'll need to enjoy being a rope bunny! I have had a decent amount of experience as a rigger too.)

• Sensory Deprivation
• Tease and Denial
• Orgasm control
• Chastity
• Impact play
• Humiliation
• CNC (only when very comfortable with each other)
• Domestic Service
• Protocols
• Hypnosis

If you made it this far, I thank you for your attention and consideration. If I sound like we might be a good fit, please drop me a message! Show me your personality, and let's see how we get on.

Speak soon (I hope!),

Chris.