Not the best start to a post, but online I'm not as good of a Dom as I am irl. Bad sales pitch. Though it's probably a matter of opinion. Irl I'm much more goldenretirever, lots of jokes, laughing, cuddling, sweet and affectionate. Even when I dom. A more serious and hopefully sexy, mask falls and I torture with a genuine and loving smile on my face. Contagious even. Online, the smile is more sly and knowing. The distance created from a phone and never have meeting makes it feel farther almost. Out of reach. Not real. Just a toy to use. This mindset is harder for me to feel in person. But online it feels more like active porn. Which is something I don't want anyone to experice who doesnt want the very same thing. It's important that the exchange is mutually fun. The dynamic always in place even if I don't have tpe access of you. When you hear the special tone for me, it flips a switch. Any and all dynamics need complete consent. I'm looking for someone that this makes them feel a tingle inside. This doesn't mean there is no aftercare. There is a safeword to be able to stop the dynamic completely so you can voice concerns, doubts or just wanting reassurances. You're a person deserving of every respect. You're real and you count and you're important. So it's natural sometimes to wonder if the person on the other line actually likes you. The answer is yes, please let me tell you as much as you need to hear it. Safety, fun, consent and vulnerability. They all rely on one another. I'm decently read on bdsm, and have years of experience as a Dom. Right now would be a perfect time to find a personal human pet. I can help with your diet and exercise goals too. Some micromanaging is always fun. I'm a bit of a sadist. Id say about medium. I love waists and asses. And I like sharing too. Voice notes, compliments, attention, pet names, phone calls.,videos and photos. Yes you'll send more but I won't be invisible. Let's verify. I'm happy sharing my face, and understand if you aren't. I only talk on telegram. Their secret chat feature I feel is the most secure, automatic deletion timers, can't take screen shots or record screen photos, can't edit, all there and only there.
I'd love to talk more. To hear about you and why more of an object focused style of subbing is gratifying for you. Let's play, find out boundaries, talk about our kinks, create safe words, and clear understanding of what we desire and need to feel heard, safe and seen.
All the best
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