Hey There,
Thanks for taking the time to read my post after my disgracefully long title.

I'm based out of Minneapolis, but traveling to Phoenix in a few weeks, so thought I'd drop that as a location we could meet up.

As it states... I'm 32, fittish and always working on it, clean, ddf, casual drinker, normal, down-to-earth, funny, witty, and simply a normal guy with a really rough marriage. I won't leave it for the kids sake, but recently there has been so little love, understanding, and ability to be myself that I'm absolutely drowning and suffocating.

If that's not your cup of tea or you're not ok with me doing this... then I'm not for you, but if you're interested by anything you read here, I'd love to chat with you.

My wife has never been accepting of any sexual exploration in the bedroom, I've always tried toys, scenarios, positions, straight up communication, etc. Her response has been from... humoring me to outright calling me gross and shutting me down. I don't have extreme views by any stretch of the imagination, but things that I'd like to try. Our sex life, when we had one, was basically missionary only and occasional oral and that was it. I craved more but had given up.

Anyway.... I thought I'd list out some of my kinks/fetishes that I'd love to eventually try some day and would love to talk to you about if any of them fit with your kinks/desires.

1. I'd love to try being a sub. I've always had to initiate, always lead, I lead during my days, during work, during every moment of life it seems, and I would LOVE to be able to try just shutting my brain off and being told what to do. Whether this is a sex toy/sex slave relationship dynamic or just straight up instruction, I'm open to any ideas.
2. Threesome, either MMF or MFF, honestly, I just think it would be a fun dynamic--with the caveat that the group would have to be extremely well vetted.
3. Bondage or any sort.
4. Public play, something like you wearing a vibrator while we're out on a date that I'm controlling as we're out and about.
5. I'm... bicurious in some ways, I don't find the male body all that attractive, but there's certain aspects sexually that I'd love to try.
6. Pegging/Anal Play
7. Femdomis ideal but I'm open to many situations.

If any of this resonates with you I'd love to hear from you and see if we'd be a good fit at some point.