San Diego local, but open to all of SoCal. Oceanside, Vista, Temecula, Murrieta, Los Angeles, you name it. Traveling isn't an issue for me within the SoCal region. Especially if we're thinking in the long run of things for those seeking something ongoing and developmental I'll preface, as well, that I have an uninvolved partner who is aware, and hold no judgement on whether you do or do not, and would appreciate the same understanding.

I'm seeking someone I can get involved with mentally and physically. Someone I could call my friend, lover, and "sub". I want us to feel the exhilaration of having someone in our lives that makes us smile, laugh, and just gives us good feelings knowing they are a part of our experience in this short life. Someone to connect with on topics and enjoy the occasional text, Snap, Telegram, etc. that makes us smile. I mentioned mentally and physically- but not emotionally. Emotional connections, to me, are something that sort of just spur out of nowhere. Either we enjoy our company together as part time Dom/sub partners and friends, or it grows and we want to care more about each other while still respecting our limitations outside of our dynamic.

And, just as equal, I'd love to find someone interested in enhancing their intimate life. This includes our interests in this lifestyle. I'm a giver and just as much a taker in that matter, and I happen to enjoy the approach of both pleasing and communicating interests. This partnership is something best built up over trust and time, but not the sole reason I'm here. I enjoy excitement of creating that rush of want, that anxiousness, excitement, those little desires that occur outside of a scene, collar, or other safe-word-required environment. I am not here to rush into anything on this with you until we're comfortable, though if our mood allows it that's a difference story. In regards to my preferences on this topic, I'll say I'm an open to detail it all out, though and am pretty explorative but accepting of others' needs. Acts involving being a Dom, Daddy, Master, in control, and acting in the ways and doing the things that my opposite would find enjoyable are what drive me here. It's something to be discussed and understood together, that must I'm sure we understand. I like to joke and say "it's the Scorpio in me", for anyone into astrology/zodiac, though definitely not a requirement to be. I'm happy to share personality tests as well. Speaking of that-

Personality and appearance- well, I'm 39 years old, happy to entertain and make us laugh, smile, and just have a good time in our lives both in and out of the room. I try to find ways to break the ice, considering I'm a bit introverted at first before being happy to have an ongoing conversation. I stand at 5'9, proportionally average height and weight (165), am somewhat of a runner (6-18 miles a week), and also happen to know Spanish if you like multiple languages. If you see my post, I'm here, let's talk! I'll be happy to exchange pictures with you as well.