TLDR; Extra thick masochist sub looking for a like-minded Dominant/Sadist/Disciplinarian to build a sort of 24/7 style dynamic with in the Denver area (Colorado locals only please, not interested in online or long distance).

Please note, I have no interest in hookups or jumping into anything sexual, even in conversation. Please read that again. A good dynamic takes a lot of trust, connection, respect of boundaries, safety, and consent. If you're not willing to put in the work around all this, please don't waste your time or mine. Thank you for respecting my wishes.

Now let's get to the fun stuff...

I'm very into playing with power dynamics and making staying disciplined more fun with kink. I love being told what to do, following protocols, completing tasks and being rewarded or punished. Additionally, I'm quite the masochist and love impact play, being overpowered, and manhandled (Regular spankings are a must!). Toys, restraints, forced orgasms and orgasm control are also favorites. Would love to explore more with rope, free use, CNC, electroplay, threesomes, and a lot more. I'm truly open and curious to try most things in the realm of BDSM and D/s with the right connection.

Typically, I'm attracted to action-oriented, masculine, and confident types around my age (32-48 roughly) who know how to communicate, are risk aware, transparent, patient, and safe. Someone who puts in the effort to make me feel cared for and respected as much as they make me feel like a dirty lil pain slut. Bonus if you're 420/710 friendly, or have good taste in memes and music.

As for me, I'm 5'7, extra thick but very active and adventurous. I got a strong heart, personality, pain limit, and sex drive but can be pretty introverted and reserved to start. I'm very demisexual and require the proper connection to feel turned on and submissive. That being said it doesn't take me long to warm up usually. I'm very good at making the best of things and appreciate people who are the same. I love to be spoiled with affection, attention, time, and gifts and to spoil my Dom similarly in return, though I can be a bit bratty at times, too.

Vanilla me is very into music, hiking, camping, backpacking, traveling, astrology, 420/710, health, fitness, decentralized science and medicine, nature, biology, house plants, trying new restaurants, hanging with friends and my dog, sharing memes, dismantling capitalism, and discussing alternatives schools of thought.

Racists, cops, and capitalist simps need not apply.

Also, while I lean towards relationship anarchy and am open to discussing most relationship styles, people with primary partners or multiple partners are less appealing atm. I'm ultimately wanting someone who has a lot of time to exchange with me and put into this dynamic, both in and out of the bedroom. I'd love to be someone's live in sub one day, too.

Please reach out if interested and please know how to hold a conversation if you do. I provided a good bit of info here and starting a conversation about it isn't that hard. I will want to chat, exchange pics, and video chat before any meeting so be prepared for that as well.

PS I would love to connect to other locals in the kink community, make friends, or non sexual playmates to attend events and classes with so if any of this resonates with you, don't hesitate to message me either.

Thanks for reading. ☺️