Hello!

I am a 30 year old cis female in search of a single, male dominant for a long term relationship/dynamic. Building a genuine connection with my partner where we enjoy each other outside of play is an essential part of making this work. To me, the dynamic lives primarily in the bedroom and we are equal partners in all other ways. We both have our lives and I'm not expecting unlimited access to you, but clear and consistent communication about availability is a must. We all know how frustrating the disappearing acts into the reddit abyss are.

In terms of play, the top priorities are consent, the respect of boundaries and limits, and communication. Playing within the safe space allows me to let go and explore the depths of my submission to my partner. There's nothing more liberating than handing over complete control to him and not having a thought in the world other than pleasing him and following his lead. It's intense, it's vulnerable, and with him I can be my most authentic self. This is about exploring pleasure within the power exchange, not pain and punishment. Although, a little funishment to keep me in line never hurts!

We can discuss specific kinks, but I'm open-minded and enjoy experimenting with new things. Finding our compatabilities is more important than any one particular kink. I'm not into anything extreme.

I would describe myself as down to earth, logical, and playful. I love some witty banter and want someone who can keep up with me. I appreciate a partner who is honest and direct, patient, and consistent. When I'm not working, I enjoy spending time with my friends and family, traveling, cooking and baking, and curling up on the couch to binge the latest series with my rescue cat.

If you're interested in seeing if we're a good match, please send me a DM with a bit of information about you, including your age. Please don't message me expecting a quick spicy chat to get off from, and don't open by calling me your favorite submissive pet names. Let's see if we mesh first, and the rest can be negotiated from there.