I love a really hard and strict Dom, especially if he knows how to respectfully negotiate and slowly ramp up. I love a man with a commanding presence, who lets me be sassy and crack my jokes in general but can shut me down in an instant if he wants.

No soft Dom's (y'all bore me, sorry)

About me:

• Full time student who gets straight A's but could use a little accountability and incentive.
• I am married, ENM. Two dogs, no kids, live in WI.
• I'm plus sized/curvy, active but have a chronic illness that can interfere.
• I'm stubborn, I'm opinionated. I will challenge my Dom if I don't agree or think he's being unreasonable. I try to do this respectfully and/or in a funny way. I'm quite funny 😌
• I operate with a philosophy of the dynamic should fit both of our needs, whatever that looks like. I'm willing to meet you where you're at.
• Honesty and trust are requirements for me. In general my philosophy is that I try to make it so my partner never feels they need to hide something from me in order to help them be honest, give me a chance to demonstrate that rather than obscuring the truth.

What I’m Looking For

• Honesty, transparency, intimacy, communication.
• If you need discretion, please be forthcoming about that. If I find out down the line (I literally always find out!) I have and will immediately terminate our dynamic over that. Trust is of the upmost importance to me.
• If you are busy, can't talk between certain hours, etc I just like to know in advance.
• Connection and chemistry above all else.
• The more frequent we can meet up the better. I am willing to negotiate traveling but keep in mind I'm a broke college student at the moment lol.

Please include your age, location in your initial message. I'll probably ask for a picture sooner rather than later. If I get the vibe we might connect I'll want to video chat within a few days as well. Otherwise, I'll let you set the pace and lead the process.