I’m a 38M daddy dom looking for his forever little. First, a little about me physically, since many people care about it. 5’7”, 260lbs, brown hair and eyes, Caucasian. Now that the what I am is done, on to the who I am.
Vanilla me is a giant nerd who enjoys reading, writing litrotica (check my profile for some stories I’ve written, and I plan on posting another tonight), scuba diving, wood working, and blacksmithing. I enjoy travel, restaurants, shows/theater, and cuddling. I’ve been described as a hopeless romantic, a silly goose, and a mentor. I have 2 dogs and cats who are family to me. I live in SC. I am a soft spoken man who is fiercely protective (but not possessive) of his family with a strong sense of justice. I always try to find the humor in life, and have a goal of making the people around me cackle at least once a day.
What am I looking for in this relationship? I’m looking for a romantic, long term, monogamous relationship with a 25-40F who shares my goals of finding a spouse and eventually starting a family (adopted or biologic doesn’t matter to me. I want someone who is interested in open communication, getting to know me for me, has her own interests and hobbies, and someone who recognizes a relationship takes effort and work. And lastly someone who hates ghosting as much as I do - if things don’t work out, have the emotional capacity to tell me.
Kinky me has both things I would absolutely love to find in a dynamic with my partner, and things I enjoy, but do not need. My biggest need is looking for a little/middle/baby girl who wants a daddy to help guide them, mentor them, and help them be their very best vision of themselves. I also consider myself not just a daddy dom, but also a pleasure dom. I enjoy (but do not need) the sexual side of little space. The non sexual side of little space provides a much different, fulfilling, and wholesome experience to me. I also am looking for a ddlg dynamic that extends outside the bedroom, but does not necessarily need to be 24/7 (but I’m very open to that as well). I would want daily rules/tasks once the dynamic is established along with funishments/punishments as negotiated.
Then there’s the things I would like, but do not need kink wise from my partner: orgasm control, orgasm denial (it’s best kept for special rare occasions), impact play, bondage, pacis/stuffies/sippys/diapers, bathroom control, light degradation, light humiliation, body writing, bratting, pet play, and permission. I am also typically aroused by something that my partner finds aroused as well.
My hard limits include vomit, blood, breath restriction, permanent changes, race play, scat, and more.
Also, some potential things about me that may be deal breakers for you. I am a heavily dom leaning switch who enjoys diapers myself, but am fine with self play in both those regards if it isn’t your cup of tea. I also take care of my disabled mother, and do not foresee her gaining full independence again. I want marriage, monogamy, and 1 kids eventually.
If you are interested in learning more about me, please reach out and tell me more about you.
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