Traditional dating apps just donāt do me anymore. Iām looking for something real, long term and monogamous. If youāre marriage minded thatās even better.
Iām currently bored at work so this will be a decent post. Gonna try and get everything in here that I can.
Okay. So. I am a 30 yo working professional in the hotel industry. I absolutely love my job, itās the easiest job Iāve ever had. I want to be able to move up in the industry but where I am currently, thatās not readily accessible to me so Iām looking to relocate. Yep. Thatās right. I am relocatable. My entire life fits in my jeep and I can pack up at any time and move. All itāll take is some gas money and maybe a hotel stay or two depending on how far you are. Bonus points if youāre in Florida as thatās my favorite state. Iād love to be able to find my happily ever after there. But. Iāll get to that part later. In my free time I love to cook, bake, read and nap. I also like to cuddle with my pup as well. She and I are a package deal so you have to at minimum like dogs. Someone once asked me to rehome her and Iāll never allow that to happen again. I do have some medical conditions that you need to be aware of as this will ward off some people. I do have a heart condition, a blood clotting disorder and possible lung issues. I follow closely with providers about these issues and am actively working to get them sorted. Theyāre not life or death but theyāre a nuisance and make my life difficult. We can discuss this more later on if youād like. And for those of you who are curious, yes I can still have sex just fine. That seems to be a question I get a lot when I tell people about my conditions. I also suffer from your basic depression and anxiety and C-PTSD. All three of those conditions are well managed but sometimes they spiral unexpectedly. Sometimes I will not talk to anyone for days and just cocoon in my blankets and not be able to move. But that rarely happens anymore. Like I said, theyāre well managed. Anyways. Moving on.
Submissive/little me? I discovered I was submissive about 3 years ago through a Dom I met on tinder. He introduced me to the lifestyle and I quickly fell in love. With more research and such, I discovered I was more little than submissive, however, with time and growing older, I think Iām a nice mix of both. I have had previous Domās before. Neither of them being Daddyās which is what Iām ultimately looking for which Iāll cover later as well. Little me likes stuffies, Disney movies, books, coloring and paciās. Consider me a 5 year old. Independent but still needy AF. Iām not into ABDL so if thatās your fetish, Iām just not your person. Submissive me wants someone to take control so I can just ābeā. I donāt want to have to think, I donāt want to have to do. I just want to ābeā. If you understand that then please reach out. Im a good girl. Or try my damndest to be. I donāt brat. I donāt purposefully break the rules. Etc etc.
What Iām looking for in a Daddy? I need you to be tallish. I love forehead kisses. I like being feeling protected by you as well. Age range of 35-45 is where I draw the line plus or minus a few years. Please do not message me if youāre under the age of 30. Purple. My Daddy needs to be super duper protective, attentive and communicative. I thrive off of attention. I thrive off of communication. I wanna feel like Iām your prized possession. I will earn that title too. That I promise you. Please, for the love of all things, do NOT expect me to send you sexual stuff within the first little bit of talking. That stuff comes with trust and time. I personally feel like if youāre a good Daddy you wouldnāt expect that for a little bit. But thatās just me. If weāre out together at the mall, I want you to hold my hand at all times. Iām a little, if I see something shiny or cute or even Stitch related I will wander off. Please be willing to protect me because the world is a scary place. I donāt wanna get lost from you in a big shopping mall. It freaks me out even when I lose a friend in Target. I need rules and structure and routine. This I do know. Without it, my life is simply chaos. Itāll take some time for me to adjust but I will adjust. Letās just not throw 15 rules at me please. One or two at a time, let me get accustomed to them and then we can add more. Sound good? Good.
Great. I think thatās about it for now. I believe I covered a lot and my ADHD is kicking in so Iām trying not to ramble all over the place here. If youāre interested, please respond with the color that I hid in my post so I know youāve at least read to the color part. That would be a great start.
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