Hello, I am Bright today and I hope you are too! I am in search of a long term dynamic. I have been granted a lot of privelege by society and the patriarchy and I want to find a woman to relinquish that to and be vulnerable with. Not looking for casual, I am seeking a deeper ideally romantic connection. I make so many decisions throughout the day, please make some for me and let me put you ahead of myself. I find opposing/defying societal norms fascinating.

Stats: 6'4", 185 lbs, slim/fit, short brown hair, blue eyes, glasses.

Vanilla: I do online website and marketing business stuff most of the time but also enjoy board games, sports, role playing games and creative outlets. I enjoy cooking food, being healthy and being of service, getting things just perfect. Nerdy but classy, I like going to conventions, festivals, musicals, dinner, and out on the town just as much as being in nature of staying inside.

I am a big communicator and if you want well thought out messages regularly, I'm your boy. I've recently enjoyed writing more erotic things but still exploring this side of my creativity.

I'm a Hufflepuff, fan of Warcraft lore, Avatar Last Airbender, Michael Schur TV. I am a big knowledge seeker and will deep dive into almost anything if it tickles my fancy. I like knowing how things work and it allows me to fix most things which is internally satisfying to do for others. Last year I got super into car detailing randomly so now that's a thing I enjoy doing. I've also recently realized I enjoy performing.

I am poly and in an open vanilla relationship and hoping that isn't an issue with a dynamic. My partner is very supportive. I'm trying to have my cake and eat it too 😊.

✅Kinks I'm into: -Worship -bondage -face sitting -service -anal play -denial -orgasm control -edging -breath play -sensory play -light/med impact play -JOI

I like being told what to do and doing it to fulfill exact wishes just to put a smile on your face.

🟡 Sometimes: -CEI (apparently that's a thing I'm into. Exploring is fun) -some sissification like makeup and lingerie or clothes, etc. -Humiliation -Degradation

🚫Hard limits are: -scat -water play -blood -cnc -ageplay (big/little without age play is a yes) -full sissification

I understand this is an exchange and not one sided so I look forward to hearing your desires and requirements. I do have lovense toys for remote play, but would prefer it also include an in person dynamic.