I am going to admit that I am looking for something very specific, and I know how this works, I'm gonna get spammed by about 100 messages in the next 12 hours- so please do not respond unless you genuinely feel that you can meet my criteria.

I am in a perfectly happy, vanilla marriage, and I have no plans in changing that. He loves me just the way I am... however, I don't really love me as I am and desperately I want to change. I am looking for a Dom who wants to take charge of my change and push me to make the transformation that I want to see. in return, I'll obsess over you as any good sub should do 😉. I'm not going to go heavily into kinks and limits, we can discuss as we learn about each other.

What I want is heavily TPE focused: Someone who will take charge of my fitness- design my plan and hold me accountable to it.
Someone who wants to make sure I get dressed everyday, pick my clothes, tell me how to wear my hair (with respect to the plans for the day- ie I need to be presentable for work, obviously) Ideally, my transformation will require a whole new wardrobe and I'd love my Dom to be the one to help me pick and choose. Someone who wants to make sure I stick to my schedule, get my things done. Someone who cares about my personal growth and development and takes pride in seeing me succeed. Accountability is key here for me, and I am open to discussing your methods of assuring the accountability through rewards and punishments 😉

About you: Ideally in CST timezone or not far from it Between 35-45 years of age Have experience with a relationship as I described above Willing to spend the time training me and working with me Be willing to have an open discussion about limits Be patient and build the relationship and trust (I'm not sending you nudes on day 1)

If you're interested and feel you fully meet what Im looking for, send me a chat with your age, location, experience in this type of relationship, a brief bio, a question for me and a pic (dont give me "reddit wont let me until you accept", we all know how image uploaders work, you can attach a link). the pic is for verification that you live a healthy life (because of my goals) and are a real person. I promise if I respond, you'll get a pic from me immediately. Responses that don't cover this brief will be ignored, sorry, but I just dont have time to respond to 100 posts with a "hey I'm what you're looking for." I want to know that you're serious and looking for a long term journey.

Please note that I am not planning on reviewing any posts until tomorrow. I don't expect to find what I'm looking for, really, and I want to be able to sit down and take a serious look at everyone who responds before responding. So feel free to take your time and craft a proper response :)