Hi there! I’m a new Domme searching for my life partner. I’m looking for a deep emotional connection, passion, and compatibility. You can be outside of the Texas area, so long as you are willing to meet in person on a regular schedule until such time as one of us relocates.

In the relationship I am the 👑Empress 👑. I value your input, but I have the last word. I expect you to be a knight in the streets and at home a sub at my feet. I enjoy being served, pampered and worshipped. Much more into leading with love than fear.

Quick Compatibility Bullet Points

• 32-55M of sound mind, body and spirit
• Spiritual - bonus if you are into Earth-based spirituality
• Secure Attachment Style
• Financially stable
• Does not desire children - if you have children they are of adult age and living outside of your home
• Generally societal accepted standards of "good looking"
• Well-kempt, clean cut

Please note, I am only interested in a long-term romantic connection which also includes FLR. Not looking for a non-working househusband, short-term dynamic, or online only.

Attraction is important. Please be willing to privately share a SFW pic.

That being said:

About me…

5'3, 145lbs | Moderate politics | College Educated | Entrepreneur | Earth-based Spiritualist | Foundational Black American | Prev Married | One Adult Child | Monogamish | Demanding, but loving Domme |

This would be my first labeled FLR. In the past I have always been a submissive, even though I was pretty terrible at it. Comments like, "your too bratty", "topping from the bottom" and "you need to learn your place" have been said so often they could be on a t-shirt as a label warning for me.

My long-term relationships have all had some element of female leadership, even if it wasn't recognized as such at the time. I am accustomed to making the household decisions, picking and planning vacation destinations, having the paycheck directly deposited to manage the finances, etc. I have a variety of interests to keep me busy during the day and have always had the option to work. Sometimes I did to help support the household and sometimes I didn't or didn't have to. Financially speaking, I can take care of myself, but I expect you to take care of us.

I have a strong entrepreneurial streak, I am curious minded and intelligent. A relationship should play off each other's strengths. If one person is good at or enjoys cooking, the other should clean...for example. Roles are fluid based on capability.

As a sub, I would expect you to have enough autonomy to make your own daily decisions. Telling you what to wear, micromanaging you, etc. is exhausting and keeps me from being in creative mode. I believe in supporting my partner, because when you look good, WE look good and ultimately it reflects back positively on me. I am feminine and nurturing. Just as comfortable twirling in a ballgown as I am eating wings while wearing Timb's.

Strolls at the farmer's market, picnics, all the lovey-dovey stuff is extremely important to me. My partner should love me and want to do for me because of that love.

I am more than happy to discuss kinks privately, but it must include breastplay and worship.

Please note, I am not into some of the following: ball-busting, inflicting undue pain, watersports, scat, degradation (I'd rather build you up), blackmail and...extremes. I'm just not into extremes.

If you are a high achieving, masculine-presenting, gentleman who knows how to wear a suit, but also hang drywall with:

• honor and integrity,
• emotional intelligence
• enjoys being obedient
• submissive
• of service
• and willing to mildly suffer whether that be mental or physical then please DM me.

I don't suffer fools lightly. Please come with something more than, "hi" or "are you still looking"