Hello! I am a submissive cis woman with some bratty and middle tendencies. Ideally, I’d love to have a D/s dynamic within a long term, monogamous romantic relationship.

I’m currently located in SW Florida in the US, but I’m definitely willing to put effort into long distance if we click. I don’t mind relocating eventually. In fact…I’d prefer it. I don’t want to live in Florida permanently - it’s too hot here!!

About Me:
Firstly, I’m plus sized, so if that’s not your jam, feel free to scroll on by. I’m white and 5’5” (165cm) with brown hair, big brown eyes, and I’m often told I have a pretty smile. Despite having a big ol’ ass, I still try to stay active, and enjoy being outdoors to do things like hike and kayak. I would love to get into some more activities with a partner. I tend to be a generally bubbly, optimistic, curious, and affectionate person with a healthy dose of sass and sarcasm on the side.

I love traveling more than anything else. Road trips, seeing different places, learning about history and other cultures, trying new foods, just being out in nature…I can’t get enough. I also love photography and other kinds of art. I have a passion for animals and animal rescue, too - I’ve been a volunteer foster for my local Humane Society for a while, and I’ve developed an interest in dog training. I play some video games, listen to music all the time, love to read, cook, and bake, am a history and language nerd, and I’m a big movie buff.

Politically, I lean very left and hope for my partner to have similar, well-informed views. I am not religious and do not have a desire to have children of my own. I drink socially and am 420 friendly.

Kinky Stuff:
I have a particular affinity for sensation play…especially tickling. Other kinks include power exchange, bondage, orgasm control (including forced orgasms, edging, and denial), praise, being manhandled, spankings, marking, light impact play, DD/lg (though I’m more of a middle - no pacis, diapers, or baby talk).

I’m also a bit of an experimentalist, so if you’re into something I haven’t specifically listed, try me! I’m willing to give many things a chance. Hard limits include scat, blood, mutilation, animals, severe pain/degradation/humiliation. My BDSM test results: https://imgur.com/a/vApaMPC

I figured I’d add this because it might be important, idk. I can’t kneel for long periods of time. I was in a car accident a few years ago that fucked with my knees, so the pressure of kneeling is painful now (and not in a fun way lol). I hate it. I hate it. I want to kneel for my Dom, and I can’t. It sucks. So, if you can deal with just knowing I’m kneeling for you in my little subby heart…that’d be nice.

About You:
Be my silly, cuddly, affectionate tickle monster! I have a general physical preference for men who are taller than me and on the larger/burly side (bonus points for a nice beard and strong hands), but I’m not extremely picky. It’s more important that we get along well and have similar values.

I want a partner who doesn’t take himself too seriously. I don’t take myself seriously, and I’d love to have a relationship dynamic that’s just as much playful and teasing as it is loving and intimate. If something goes wrong or doesn’t go to plan, and we can end up just giggling about it together, that’s my shit. Someone be goofy with me lol.

If you consider yourself a “One True Way” kind of Dom, are very strict/serious, or like to be super degrading or sadistic, then we likely won’t work well. If you consider yourself a Daddy Dom, Soft Dom, Pleasure Dom, or something else along those lines, we’d probably fare much better. Most importantly, please be kind, patient, honest, and attentive.

Thanks for reading! Please tell me a little about you and why you think we might work well if you happen to reach out. :)