I’m a 6ft, plus size woman who is looking for a person I can really connect with. I’m white collar employed, but I do not dream of labor. In terms of a relationship, I want to be your adored person. In a world of almost infinite possibilities, I want you to choose me. Let’s do things together and talk about everything. Friends, partners, and lovers.

My hobbies tend towards reading (smut- lots of smut), random crafts, and video games. I’m working on adding outdoor activities as well. Biking and kayaking are the current ones I’m trying to add. I think hiking would be fun too, but oddly enough Midwest not the hiking mecca you might imagine. The biggest thing is I’m pretty much down for most things to try or do. I just will need to recharge by hiding inside a bit too.

Also, I’m left on the political scale (at least in America. In Europe, I’m probably just left of middle.) and I would need you to be as well. Think abortion is a right, trans rights are human rights etc.  

Sex – I like the full spectrum of sex. I want sweet and romantic, as well as dirty and a little depraved. Usually, I like to be the sub, but sometimes I also want to play with your body, which includes your prostate if you’re a guy. Kinks are also pretty across the board from impact play, bondage, somnophilia, a bit of CNC/dubcon, some pet play, massage, secret toys in public. The thing with most kinks is I’m kind of middle of the road or on the light side. Like yes, I like edging for like a day, but more than that….Eh, I have shit to do. Reddit introduces you to the extremes though, and you’re like “oh no. I am a wuss.”. Dislikes – Scat, watersports, blood (although a few exceptions). The funny thing to me is I don’t think I’m that kinky, until I talk to someone that isn’t at all kinky. Then it’s like an “oooohhhh you don’t ever strap your partner while you use toys on them?” ok good to know.

Sexuality – Demisexual. Make a connection, and I will be fascinated with you, no matter the genitalia or gender. I’m also a monogamous sort, who could be open to guest stars later.  But just as a guest.

Please be a person who has some of it together. Doesn’t have to be all because then my hot mess self would be intimidated, and immediately assume I’m not good enough.

Last but not least – if you message, please share one small bad habit. I’ll start. I leave the cabinet doors open like I’m begging for a head injury. Why? No idea. Get to the end of cooking, and I’m like what happened? Was there an earthquake? Oh, nope it was me.