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What I’m Looking For: I’m seeking a partner who values growth, meaningful connection, and the thrill of exploration. Ideally, you’re attentive, a strong communicator, and independent, with a sense of stability in your life. Being a brat is totally good with me! Physically, I’m most drawn to those with a slim, petite, or average build.

My primary goal is to find a consistent play partner, preferably someone local to Southeast Michigan. However, I’m open to long-distance if we can commit to regular and meaningful communication. While I’m open to online connections, I ultimately prefer in-person interactions. I’m excited to share experiences, explore new aspects of kink, and deepen our connection together.

Kinky Me: I’ve been part of the BDSM community for over 20 years and am passionate about education and connection within the lifestyle. I actively teach and demo a variety of topics that reflect my kinks and values.

I identify as a sadistic primal dominant, and my core interests include:

S&M: Paddles, floggers, canes, spanking, whips, and predicament scenarios.

Bondage/Restraints: Leather, rope, and creative predicaments.

Edge Play: Knives, fear play, and electricity (violet wand), as well as wax play, medical play, pet play, and primal/rough body play.

Mental/Physical Degradation & Humiliation: Including emotional sadism and behavior modification.

Dynamics: D/s and M/s dynamics, focused on conditioning, protocols, and deep connection.

Extreme Play: Abduction, consensual non-consent (CNC), TPE, and breath play.

Misc Kinks: Breeding RP, teasing/edging, and Daddy Dom!

It’s important to note that while these are my interests, they don’t have to be yours. If something catches your attention or piques your curiosity, I’d love to talk about it—no pressure to match all my interests especially if you’re newer to BDSM.

If you think we might have common interests or you’re curious about exploring with me, I’d love to hear from you. Let’s connect and see where our conversation takes us!

About Me: I’m a 42-year-old cis white male living in Southeast Michigan, passionate about life, discovery, and meaningful connections. Music is a big part of my world—I play several instruments, with drums being my specialty—and I’m always up for a rock or hard rock concert. As a foodie, I love exploring new cuisines and cultures, especially when paired with a great glass of wine. My career is both rewarding and fulfilling, and I’m grateful for the stability it provides. Physically, I’m 6’2” with a dad-bod build, brown hair, and blue eyes.

When I’m not out with friends or enjoying a good movie, you’ll often find me outdoors, soaking up nature, or having a quiet night in playing video games. I’m a big animal lover with a deep fascination for the ocean. My curiosity drives me to explore topics like science, astronomy, paleontology, and even the paranormal—I thrive on learning how things work. I enjoy staying active through workouts and adventures, but I also appreciate the balance of relaxing downtime.

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