I’m 31f, white, blonde, blue eyes, in WA state. I’m a bigger woman, size 24 right now. I’ve been working on it to keep my health good, and for weight loss. I have an alt look, with 5 tattoos and 20 piercings currently. I’m looking for a more nurturing dom that’s gentle and strict as I need boundaries, structure, and outside encouragement and motivation.

I’m not very outgoing or dominant, but I can be a little mouthy. I wouldn’t call myself a brat though, just a little sassy. I’m definitely introverted and I’m generally quiet. I have a good sense of humor, and when I’m comfortable with you, I can talk a lot but I still do like comfortable silences. I like to go out, I just need time to recharge afterwards. I don’t smoke and rarely drink, and prefer the same for you. I prefer almost constant contact throughout the day, just texting each other when we can as schedules allow. I can be clingy and needy—I want attention, affection, and someone that makes me feel safe and owned. I’d like someone vocal, for communication purposes but also because I need frequent reassurance that I’m yours. I want to have deep conversations but be able to transition seamlessly to flirting and fucking.

I’m looking for something long term, monogamous, and kinky. I aim for a collar, but also a ring as I want to get married someday. Basically, I want a kinky love story. I will not be having kids, but have 2 cats that are nonnegotiable.

Professionally, I’m not. I’ve really struggled being part of the workforce and I don’t find satisfaction in work. I do work part time currently and am still looking for my calling, but if you’re looking for a career-minded sub, that’s not me. Honestly, my wildest fantasy is to be a stay at home whore, taking care of the home, pets, my body, and your needs.

I am submissive and kinky, but I do have limits. Some kinks of mine are creampies, light impact play, light choking, name calling and degradation with limits, female inferiority, oral and throat training, free use, and orgasm control (not denial though). I’m kinda interested in wardrobe control, anal, and public play. Some limits include age play, real pain including permanent marks or harm, weapons, humiliation, financial control, bathroom control, watersports, scat, blood, and vomit. I’m willing to discuss further and verify in chats. I have discord and telegram and would like to move off reddit pretty quickly because the notification system is inconsistent here.

Physically, I am aiming to become smaller but not unhealthily small. I’m thinking a size 14 or 16. I would love help with a workout schedule and diet. I’m open to physical bimbofication as long as we agree on what the end result would look like.

As for you: I’m open to what you look like physically, though I do prefer white with darker features like hair and eye color. I prefer men who have a dad bod. You’re close to my age or older, ideally 25 , but please no one under 18. Ideally you’re not religious or can accept that I’m not. Location wise, I am open to further away as long as relocation is on the table (either you or me).

I’m not sure what else to put here. Feel free to ask me any questions. Chats are open.