Hi everyone,

I'm a 32-year-old geek interests like fantasy, board games, tabletop RPGs, and console gaming. I've always been intrigued by BDSM and shibari, but due to my introverted nature, I've never found people to share this passion with. My experience has been limited to consuming content online, self-bondage, and a collection of toys. However, it always felt a bit incomplete, lacking the unpredictability of another person.

Recently, I realized that I can't be the only one with these challenges and decided to look for people to explore the world of BDSM with.

As mentioned, I don't have much experience, but I'm open to various scenarios. Currently, I consider myself a switch with a predominant sub side. Ideally, I'd like to meet someone who is also interested in switching roles, but I'm open to people with more defined preferences.

For those more submissive:

Want to experience losing control, being tied up with ropes or wrapped in plastic and left for a while? I'm here to help.

We can enhance the experience by adding sensory deprivation with a blindfold, gag, and headphones.

Want more? I can use some of my many toys to bring you waves of pleasure.

Prefer something more active? Spanking, pet play, commands? There are many possibilities. Let's set our boundaries and explore everything within them.

For those more dominant:

Happy to switch roles and become your rope bunny.

Willing to follow your commands.

Eager to find someone who can teach me how to masterfully please a woman orally.

Interested in degradation play, pegging, or dominating a man in any way? I'm game.

A few of my rules:

If I didn't mention something you're interested in, feel free to ask. I'm very open and non-judgmental.

I'm looking for both less experienced partners to explore slowly with and more experienced ones who can guide me.

I'm open to single encounters as well as longer-term connections. If you just want to chat, that's fine too.

Pain can be enjoyable to a certain extent, but I'm neither a masochist nor a sadist. Severe pain like whipping to blood or CBT is beyond my limits. I'm also not interested in causing permanent bodily harm.

Consent and boundaries are very important to me.

I believe everyone deserves respect, regardless of their kinks or their dom/sub role.

Just in case it matters to anyone, I do have a bit of extra weight, but i hope this is not dealbreaker for anyone.

If you're interested in my post, please send me a message. Looking forward to potentially exploring with you!