Thanks for stopping by, internet stranger. If you're ready to explore the wilder side of your kinks this could be just the start. Read on!

I’m a 38-year-old male Switch from Europe. Over the years, I’ve explored my Dominant side quite a bit, but deep down, I’ve always known I also wanted to submit, follow instructions, and be a good boy. I just haven’t had the chance yet. I’m sure I’m not alone in this, so here I am, looking to find my other kinky-switchy half.

I'm looking for a playful, creative, like-minded play partner who can appreciate both sides of the dynamic as much as I do. I’m not looking for strict roles or a 24/7 Dom/sub setup. I’d much rather connect with someone who wants to create a flexible, playful space where we’re both free to express ourselves, explore new edges, escape the daily grind, have fun, and yes, get a little (or a lot actually) naughty along the way.

What I'm Looking For:

• An online (long term) connection that’s about more than just kink. Let’s chat regularly, laugh, rant, talk about things we care about, and of course, enjoy some naughty times!
• Location/time zone doesn’t really matter, though a few hours of overlap would be a plus. If we live relatively close I’d be more than happy to meet at some point but that’s not a requirement at all!
• A partner who values communication, fun, trust, and mutual enjoyment. These are the foundation for any exploration I want to dive into.
• Someone who’ll set the rules one day, then flip the coin the next day and follow my rules (doesn’t that sound sexy and fun?).
• An open-minded explorer of all sorts of play! I consider myself a curious traveler in the world of pleasure & kinks, always excited to discover more (and there’s a lot!)

A Little Bit About Me:

• I’m in an ethically non-monogamous relationship (I know that’s a dealbreaker for some, so I wanted to mention it right away). My partner and I are a bit kinky, but there’s more I want to explore independently.
• I love plants, gardening, and nature (I might have too many plants inside and out). Music usually follows me all day, I enjoy cooking, and I generally love building things with my hands.
• I’m creative in all aspects of my life, but especially when it comes to kinky tasks, rewards, and punishments. I get a thrill out of crafting complex tasks that can keep you on edge for hours (or days!)
• I work from home, which gives me plenty of time and options.
• I'm as caring and attentive as I am adventurous. I value mutual respect and making sure we both feel valued in whatever we explore together.
• Physically, I’m 5'4", slim but still muscular, long dark hair, beard and a little bit of body hair.

My Top 3 Kinks (Giving or Receiving): Orgasm control, anal play, pleasure and pain. I also love giving praise and worship, doesn’t that just make everything hotter? Of course, there’s a lot more to explore, but let’s talk about that in private ;)

If this resonates with you, send me a message! Let’s chat, see where things go, and maybe start crafting some shared mischief.

Looking forward to meeting a kindred spirit (or twisted partner in crime)!