Hey, I’m Ellie. I’m a 30f somewhat inexperienced sub based in Dorset — and a hopeless romantic looking for ‘the one’. 

A little bit about me… I’m 5ft4, average build (working to turn that into an athletic build), brown eyes, brunette, and a little alternative with a few piercings (nose ring, septum, lots in the ears, navel, nipples) and tattoos. Hobbies include travelling, trail/ultra running, hiking, wandering around historical sites for hours on end, and curling up with a good romance novel and a glass of wine.

My kinks... Due to previous partners' preferences, I haven't had much opportunity to try much of this in the flesh, so to speak, but I do have a pretty long list of kinks and interests that I'd like to explore. For the basis of this post, I’ll keep it broad: orgasm control, some humiliation, some pain, and breeding. My limits tend to lie with the common ones: scat, blood, puke.

What I’m looking for… someone preferably in their thirties who is searching for someone to settle down and build a life with. Someone naturally dominant and who leads, is kind, romantic and confident in what they want — and can match my voracious libido! A good sense of humour is important to me, as well as someone who likes a bit of adventure and actually going out and doing things, whether that be hiking in the great outdoors or a boujee weekend away.

While I would prefer something that isn’t a long- or medium-distance situation, it’s something I’d consider if it’s done with intention and enough effort is made to physically spend time together and build that solid foundation.

Communication is key for me, and I'm looking for someone who will be able to meet my communication needs, going beyond surface-level fluff and getting to know each other on a deeper level, building a basis of friendship and trust before embarking on anything physical. Ultimately, I’m looking for a long-term, IRL, fulfilling relationship with lots of fun, laughter and a great sex life at the centre.

Thank you for taking the time to read this essay! If this sounds like something you’d be interested in, I’d love to hear from you. Let me know your most memorable travel experience and somewhere on your bucket list!