Hey there! I’m a 37-year-old Dom with a nerdy side, looking for a submissive woman interested in a long-term dynamic with at least some 24/7 elements. While I can be firm when I need to be, I also love a good laugh, a cozy night in, and indulging in all things geeky. Whether it’s a marathon of board games, getting lost in a new fantasy novel, or baking something sweet, I believe life’s about balance—mixing the playful and the serious. I’m committed to nurturing a deep, meaningful connection where trust, respect, and communication come first.

While I enjoy the intensity and playfulness of a bedroom dynamic, I’m seeking a submissive who’s interested in exploring power exchange outside the bedroom as well. I’m looking for a woman who is comfortable with submission as part of our daily life—whether it’s how we communicate, how we make decisions, or how we handle challenges. I want to create a dynamic that feels natural and authentic, where you trust me to lead, and I trust you to be open and engaged in your submission.

This isn’t necessarily about controlling every little moment; it’s about a deep, consensual power exchange where I guide, lead, and provide structure—and you have the freedom to embrace your submission in a space where you feel safe, respected, and fulfilled.

I view kinks as a way to give tangible essence to the dynamic/power exchange, so I have broad and varied interests when it comes to the kinks that I enjoy. Some specifics that I would list; Wardrobe control, orgasm control (edging/denial/forced orgasms/ruins), some pain play (clamps, spanking/flogging, etc.), body writing and both degradation/praise. For limits; blood play, vomit, scat, permanent harm (emotional or physical) involving nonconsenting parties, animals, any non-adults and age play. (some of those should be too obvious to need to list)

I’m particularly drawn to women who have a more petite frame and are the opposite of my own build (I’m on the heavier side). There’s something about the contrast that just clicks for me. That said, what matters most is your personality—confidence, humor, and the desire to explore the full spectrum of a Dom/Sub dynamic are key.

Bonus points if you enjoy reading (especially sci-fi or fantasy), board games, or just relaxing with a movie and some homemade treats. If you like to bake or are into food (and maybe a little indulgence), we’ll definitely get along.

If you’re looking for a fun, nerdy Dom to explore a 24/7 power exchange dynamic with, I’d love to hear from you. Tell me a little about yourself—what are your interests, and what excites you about a Dom/Sub relationship?