I know, kind of dramatic title. But I think a lot of us feel a sense of dread lately, so why not have someone to dread with? This is going to be a long one so to make things easier I'm going to toss some of the highlights about myself up top so you don't have to weed through the entire post to find any potential deal breakers.

• Type: Dominant
• Appearance: 5'8 average build, white guy with beard tattoos
• Diet: Vegan (preference for fellow herbivore, but not a deal breaker)
• Politics: Very liberal/leftist
• Kids: Don't have or want

Okay if you're still here then congrats! I'll try and break this up into sections to make it a little easier to read.

What I'm looking for

I'm looking for a long term TPE relationship with a submissive. To start your location isnt of huge importance, as long as you are located in the united states. I'm okay starting things off online as long as we are able to communicate regularly and we both see potential in this culminating in an IRL relationship. My ideal relationship would be equal parts dynamic and vanilla relationship. I want to have the kind of power and control that comes with a TPE dynamic but that doesnt mean I want to exercise it 24/7. My ideal partner is someone who enjoys being a girlfriend just as much as being a sub, and can freely move between those headspaces. I want to take you to a nice restaurant, but tell you exactly what to wear for me. I want to wake up before you on a saturday morning and make you breakfast, and then tie you to the bed after we eat and force you to cum for me. You get the idea. Still here? Great! I'll see you in the next section.

About me

I'm a 31 year old dominant and identify as your classic 'nerd'. Which shouldn't come as a surprise to you, I'm confident all nerds are into kink because its just sexual LARPing. Currently I work in tech (happy to go into more detail later on), but for a few years before that I worked professionally in game development so I really love video games. I also love board games, D&D, movies, dive bars, and camping. Probably the worst thing about me is I have pretty severe anxiety and some tendencies for self-loathing. My mood can often depend on how my anxiety is that day so having a partner who not only tolerates that, but understands and can accommodate that is really important to me. As far as my kinks, I'm basically into everything that doesnt involve me being a sub/bottom. I'm extremely open minded and love to explore and experiment. The thing that turns me on the most is what my partner finds hot. That being said I do have some preferences for things like bondage, CnC, and free use. Damn still reading? You must really like me, on to you.

About you

I want to preface this section by saying that if you dont find yourself fitting perfectly into what I describe here that is totally fine. If you like what you see here and feel like you fit the vibe, reach out. With that out the way, my ideal partner is first and foremost someone who shares my world view/values. That means a left-leaning vegan who doesnt want kids. I really enjoy feminine girly girls who will let me pay to get her nails done in the color I want. You are nurturing and caring and enjoy serving your dom/partner both sexually and domestically. I'm not looking for a full time maid but service-oriented subs are my preference. You like rules and tasks, and consider yourself open-minded and love to experiment. Ideally you also enjoy videogames and general nerd-dom. I want someone I can game with at the end of the day, or who I can talk to about a new game I'm excited about without their eyes glazing over. You're also completely submissive and have no expectations/desire for me to switch and be the sub/bottom. You enjoy having a glass of wine or grabbing a couple drinks out at a cool bar I found. And most importantly you enjoy having a boyfriend, not just a dom. I want to be able to talk to you and treat you like a girlfriend when not treating you as a sub. To me that means hanging out with our mutual friends, buying you gifts, sending you door dash when you're feeling sick, cuddling, having deep talks about our future and how much we love each other, etc.

Closing

If you made it this far and are still interested I"m confident we will be at least some-what compatible, which is why I took the effort to make this as exhaustive as possible. Physical attraction is important to me, so if you do decide to reach out please message me a photo of you as soon as possible and I will do the same. If this is still up, I"m still looking.