Hi I'm Casey and I love video games and staying the fuck home. Yeah, I'm a homebody. Untreated ADHD and generalized anxiety disorder all through childhood led me to a sort of stunted growth as an adult. I'm not stupid, I was always above average at most stuff I've tried, but I've had maybe three or four long term relationships in my life and I thought it'd find the right one for me by now but I'm either cursed or stunted so I went with stunted. What I'm looking for seems like something almost goes against the core of the followers of BDSM lifestyles. I'm looking for a sort of fluidity. Don't get me wrong, I'm dominant only and would never switch but I find the a lot of the time a 24/7 Master and slave relationship doesn't leave room for other things that call to me. Is it hot to think of owning a bitch 24/7 and using her however I see fit, whenever I see fit? Sure, yes, but how am I supposed to play a game of Magic: The Gathering with the person who is supposed to be my world if the rigidity of our roles only allowed her to stay in a goddamn cage all day long? How can we go out to eat together when it's generally unacceptable to have a naked woman on a collar and leash in a fancy restaurant? Would it still be hot? For sure it would be hot, I like just thinking about it! I need more though. I want a submissive that can be mine and also be my best friend and lover. I'm monogamous and don't share either and for some reason that is problematic in the BDSM community as everyone seems to be ENM. I don't have anything against those that are ENM, it's just not really for me.

When it comes to BDSM I'm dominant only, I love bondage, humiliation, objectifying, CNC, and other nasty shit but those are the big ones. I want someone who can be my everything but I'm no daddy dom. I'm a real, honest to goodness sadist. I love to watch the one I'm with suffer, specifically for me. Sometimes it's physical pain, sometimes it's mental. I like the idea that I'm corrupting someone or that I'm manipulating someone.

I guess now should be a description. I'm white, dirty blonde hair that's currently in a Mohawk, green eyes, 5' 6" about 170 lbs (don't worry I don't plan on keeping the dad bod, lol) I'm disease free and California sober (meaning I'm extremely 420 friendly) hard left politics, and don't want children. That one is probably going to be a big hads limit for a lot of women so if you didn't read this far than you probably just wasted both our time. Oh I'm also about an hour north of Sacramento in CA.

If you are going to message me I ask that you please include a picture with your message as it's more likely to get a response from me and I'll send one back if you do anyway so we can make sure we are at least attracted to each other before anything else.