Hi there! I'm a 32-year-old submissive guy near Salem, Oregon, looking for a woman who wants to build a real femdom relationship. I’m seeking someone ideally around my age, though I’m open to connecting with anyone who feels they’re a good fit.

I’m 6'4" and 165 lbs., so if height matters to you, I’ve got that covered! (Picture at the bottom.)

What I’m looking for is a partner who’s genuinely interested in taking the lead—someone who can inspire me to fall in line naturally. While I can make my own choices, there's a thrill and deep satisfaction in giving myself to a woman who confidently takes charge. I don’t need us to be equals in every way, but I’m looking for a relationship that’s healthy and respectful.

Experience in the lifestyle is definitely a plus. If you’re a bit new to this, that’s fine too; I’m open to exploring something casual, like an FWB dynamic, if you’re curious about learning how to embrace a dominant role. However, I’m looking for someone who truly wants to lead and won’t need me to guide them through the process—that takes away the spark for me.

When it comes to kinks, my main thrill is simply having a partner to serve and fulfill her fantasies. For my own interests, chastity play is a big one for me, as well as teasing, humiliation, and some experience with cuckold dynamics. I enjoy a rough edge to play but not anything painful—it’s more about being put in my place than physical intensity. Of course, everything I enjoy is within the boundaries of a safe and consensual connection, where we can explore freely together.

As for limits, I have some clear boundaries around things like bathroom play, blood, age play, anything illegal—essentially, the typical hard limits. I’m looking for a safe, sane, and consensual experience.

Outside of kink, I’d say I’m a bit of an engineer type—curious, always tinkering, and driven to understand how things work. I love building and fabricating, and I enjoy adventure, though I hate doing things alone. I consider myself intelligent and open-minded, and I’m hoping to find a partner who values those qualities too.

Fitness and health are important to me, and I’m drawn to women who prioritize these in their own lives. I connect best with partners who are fit or petite, as that’s what I find most attractive.

As for what I bring to the table, I’ve done the work to understand what makes a relationship healthy. I’ve been through therapy and have a solid grasp on being a good partner, especially in terms of communication and mutual respect. I’m looking for someone who appreciates the value of open dialogue and growth within a relationship.

Also, just a heads up that I’m unable to host at the moment, but it’s not because I’m married or anything like that—I only mention this because I’ve read the horror stories from other kink community members. I’m happy to explain more when we talk.

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