I'm moving to Raleigh in December for PA school and wanted to see about getting to know someone first. As long as our kinks line up, that can be the extent of the kink aspect of the conversation while we get to know each other personally over the next few months. BDSM is an enhancement and not the entirety of the relationship. If you're interested in a non-emotional relationship, I'm open to that as well. We're all here for one kinky reason or another, as important as that is to me, I'm learning that I've focused on this aspect too soon from the beginning or not at all with vanilla dating and it hasn't been very helpful. I don't want someone to be attracted to me because of my kinks, but to want to be with me because of the person I am. The kinks are a plus, but I'm proposing to start things off rather vanilla. I need a partner where there is love, support, and care in the relationship. As much as I want to tie you up, edge, spank, and all the fun stuff, I want to pamper and show that affection and dote on them, make love to them, spoil them. I want to show you how much I care about you as a person before moving into the kink. I want someone I can spend time with, travel with, grow together emotionally with outside of the kink, someone that I'm comfortable just being around. That's just a simplistic version of my desires and happy to elaborate more.

About me: I'm 33 5'8 180lbs and Egyptian. I've got my shit together and I've worked hard for my stuff. Now, it would be nice to share it with the right person.

I am very athletic and work out hard 6-7 days a week so someone who is fitness/health conscious is ideal. I've learned that I love hiking and camping and anything outdoors related. I love traveling to foreign countries for fun and eating my way across them. I love food. I love to cook and bake, experiment with recipes, and try new things all of the time. I've taken up skydiving and kayaking and enjoy doing that in my free time when I can. There's so much out there to experience cuisine wise and culturally and I want it. I enjoy playing video games when I can as well as reading. I'm a total history nerd and love everything about history. I go to museums wherever I travel to (I'm the type that reads all the little placards).

I'm very dedicated to my work and take great pride in it and doing well. I strive to do the right thing and do right by people. I'm not religious and I lean left politically. I like collecting cool trinkets in my travels and have recently started a record collection. I'm a pretty laid back and go with the flow kind of person. I think that's a good snapshot of myself as l'd let my potential partner learn more about me over time.

What I'm looking for: I'm looking for a woman, 18 from wherever, that's is ready for me to earn her love and affection while offering me herself (if that makes sense). I don't care where you're from, a connection is a connection and distance is whatever. You need to be willing to meet eventually as I want the real thing. I'm sick of online shit, but I understand these things take time in order to build a trusting relationship so l'm patient for it if I feel like it's going somewhere.

I would want you to have your shit together. Know what you want. Independence is just as important as dependence. There's a healthy balance of relying on someone as well as being your own person with your own life. If you want to learn about the lifestyle, I'm happy to converse about it. We all have our kinks, I don't judge yours, you shouldn't judge mine. Which leads to what I'm looking for in a sub

Eagerness and willingness to please, serve, and submit. Learning what your role is in our relationship. Do these things and there's nothing I wouldn't do for you (double neg? Idc) as l've elaborated above. You are my partner.

My kinks: it has taken me a while to realize my interests and kinks. Once I figured it out, I knew I could never go back to a traditional vanilla relationship. I just crave it too much and when my partner isn't into anything it makes me resent them (wrong, I know). I enjoy the D/s dynamic as well as Master/slave, so something in between is ideal. I'm dominant, aggressive, and insatiable. I enjoy CNC, free use, and completely possessing my sub. I'll be more specific with someone who if you're interested and got this far. I have had subs in the past but due to things in life we've had to go separate ways. I understand the importance and need for aftercare, limits, and safety. I'm sadistic, not an asshole.

If you made it this far then I applaud you. There's so much more I want to say, but I think this is enough to narrow down who may be interested. I have pictures in my profile but l've decided to hide the nude ones for now and seeing how this new approach works. Reach out if you'd like to talk more and I really do wish everyone the best of luck in all their future endeavors.