Hello and thanks for reading. This will be a long post but hopefully easy to read. I am making this post to find my next sub. If any of this post stands out to you feel free to message me. I am also an open book so ask me any questions you would like. Let's go Tuesday night people!

What I am looking for: I am looking for either an in-person or online dynamic. Ideally the goal is for long term. Preferably with a TPE/Pet play type of dynamic but I am also open to anything as long as there's a connection. This should be a in/out of the bedroom type of dynamic. Preferably looking for someone either in Nevada or any neighboring state. However I am open to the possibility of a longer distance in the US so long as there's a mutual plans to travel to each other.

What I am looking for in my next sub is someone who is looking to build a dynamic together with me even when it gets tough. I am open to both cis/trans women. I am not picky about physical appearance however I do believe in some physical attraction. Some of the traits that I value are someone who is able to communicate and express themselves in a healthy manner, someone who can find the time in their life to build a dynamic and not look for play sessions, preferably someone who is nerdy or a gamer, lastly is ENM/polyamorous or at least open to their dom being polyamorous. Looking for someone in the age range of 24-40. I don't expect or require experience as long as they are open to exploring. A lot of what I ask for is someone who is in a good place emotionally and real interest/time to form a dynamic. Also because it was brought up I would generally like to make this a LTR with kink oriented. However depending on the person I am open to just keeping it kink.

My last ask is please do not be the type to ghost when you are not longer interested.

Bonus points: - up for video/voice calls - nerdy gamer - goth/alt

For visibility, if you are interested in reaching out please send me your age, sex, location, and a bit about yourself or what you are looking for.

About me: I am a Dom all the way and not interested in switching. I have been a dom for 7 years and have had a few subs for both pet play/TPE. I am open to learning new dynamics but will have little to no experience if you are looking for something different. Highly kinky and very much a soft dom. Potentially service Dom as I enjoy spoiling my subs but someone who is very strict when it comes to my sub holding their end of tasks/commands. Minor sadist side depending on the circumstances. Not generally involved in the scene such as going to events or parties but open to it. Happy to discuss this more.

Vanilla me: I am a 32 white male, currently living in Las Vegas, 5'9" average body build definitely want to improve it or go full dad bod (pics in profile). I am a big nerd. I love my video games. If you are curious I play really everything cause there's something to be loved. But I mostly play like WoW, Monster hunter, Diablo, Pokemon, Civ6, and total Warhammer 3, baulders gate 3, persona. I work in IT it's the field that I am passionate about and work hard for. I was lucky enough to get a remote position so I do have lots of time to give. Personality wise, I am a homebody I find it relaxing and fun but I do enjoy going out. I'm an engineer at heart so breaking things and fixing them and improving them is a lot of fun. I think I'm funny but pretty dry humor that'll chuckle if someone shouts penis 🤷🏻‍♂️ what you gonna do. I am poly and currently have a nesting partner but no other sub/play partner.

I am the type of person that would fight for a relationship and put the effort in. Most likely will try hard to make you laugh so hard your drink comes out your nose. Endlessly spoil you with affection and attention and random tidbits of stuff I find interesting throughout the day.

Kinks: Anal, humiliation, TPE(24/7), bondage, orgasm control, pet play, ropes, wax play, free use, breeding, preggo. I am more of a try something first and then determine my limits so not much off the table. All of my kinks are non-mandatory I just listed what I enjoy and could remember

Hard limits: Scat, weapons(knives/guns), blood, heavy pain (receiving or giving), animals