I’m 36, consider myself fairly attractive, I stay active and take care of myself, I am a bit on the curvy side. I’m witty, smart, and enjoy good banter. Life keeps me busy with plenty of responsibilities, but I invest my time if we click. I appreciate the simple pleasures—cooking, walking, traveling, meaningful or silly conversations.
I need a fair amount of attention and adoration, and I’m more than willing to give it back. Good communication is very important to me; if we connect, I want consistency, plenty of check-ins, and to genuinely know each other’s day-to-day. Building a foundation of friendship matters.
Sub me
I’m relatively new to the lifestyle but have found that I enjoy being obedient and following instructions, with a touch of creativity in the mix. In a D/s dynamic, I’m drawn to someone who is consistent, attentive, and enjoys guiding with care. Respect, clear communication, and aftercare are essential, and I’m happy to provide my own support and attention in return. I’m monogamous and seeking a romantic connection, ideally with someone close enough to make meetups realistic down the road, so a European timezone is preferred.
Who I’m looking for
I’m looking for a D-type who enjoys giving praise, and leans toward the pleasure and daddy dom side. Someone who takes joy in providing guidance and focus while appreciating my eagerness to please. While praise is important to me, I’m open to exploring other dynamics and kinks together. If this resonates, feel free to reach out, and let’s see if we connect.
Please share in DM your timezone, age, and a short description of yourself and your preferences.
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